Moving To Boston
Gobind Singh offers a proud pose
This was a very special occasion for our family—a send-off Kirtan for our dear Gobind Kapoor, as he prepares to leave the Bay Area for Boston to begin his very first full-time job.
Gobind in a Restaurant in Harvard Square on June 22, 2024.
Last year, he had an internship at this company, and they were so impressed with him that they not only offered him a top permanent position for a newly entrant but also included in the offer a remarkable benefit: they will cover expenses for his future Master’s program at Georgia Tech.
San Francisco - Boston. We and Gobind will be on either side of the Coast.
Though Boston is far, across the country from the family and friends with whom he grew up in San Ramon, we know it is the right step for him to build his career, become independent, and carry his values with him wherever he goes.
Sehaj path of Sri Guru Granth Sahib
Our Prayer room ready
Harvinder and I had decided that in gratitude to the Almighty, we would begin the continuous reading Sehaj Path of Sri Guru Granth Sahib Ji, and complete it before Gobind’s birthday and his departure. By Waheguru’s grace, the reading was completed lovingly and with devotion.
Shilpy, Jania and Geet in Harminder Sahib Amritsar on Aug 4,2025
One special blessing came when Shilpy and girls Jania and Geet were in Amritsar visiting Sri Harmandar Sahib. By chance, Shilpy Mamajis, the Kandharis (S. Jaspal Kandhari and family)—had arranged an Akhand Path inside the Sanctum Sanctorum. At that very sacred spot, where Guru Ram Das Ji himself studied and recited Gurbani, Shilpy participated in the reading through her phone right on that spot. It felt as though our humble path had merged into that eternal vibration. Truly, it was Waheguru’s special gift to us.
Shilpy disbursing the Parsd.
Gobind’s turn to wave the Chour Sahib.
We keep the double door open when the whole family sits around. The dog Bhaalu gets excited and joins in.
Shiv and Jania listen to the Guru Hukam through me.
The completion of the Ninth Mahalla Shlokas was made even more memorable as Shiv himself participated in the recitation. Our entire family came together in service—Shilpy prepared Prasad and Bhog, Gobind did Ardas with great fluency and devotion, Jania and Geet respectfully waved the Chaur Sahib, and even our beloved dog, Bhaalu, seemed part of this spiritual atmosphere!
Here is the Hukamnama — order of the Guru today:
Gurus Hukamnama is placed above along with English translations for all to benefit. How appropriate for Gobind and his family.
For me, it was a humble duty to read the Hukamnama, which arrived as divine guidance for all in the family.
Shukrana Kirtan and Langar
Langar cooking Sewa by Shilpy, Jania and Geet.
Shiv and me peeling off carrots meant for Salad.
On the final Sunday, we had invited friends and family to Hayward Gurdwara Sahib for the concluding Kirtan. Initially, many had said they might not make it due to prior commitments, but by Guru’s grace, the Gurdwara hall was overflowing, filled with Sangat beyond our expectations.
Full view of Sangat.
The atmosphere was charged with love and blessings. The Langar was arranged with great care, even with an on-site tandoor for fresh hot naans, which everyone enjoyed. After the Kirtan and Bhog, we all gathered in the adjoining hall to share food and fellowship.
Dressed up Family photo in Gurdwara Sahib
Newly weds Jason and Sharini with Harvinder
Waiting for the Langar.
Accompanied by my sister Ambu Bhenji, discussing my village Badbar School project with dear Rajpal ji.
Gobind siting in a ‘Pangat’ for Langar with his friend Jaskinder and his friendly Taran Chachu.
My cousin and Harvinder aunty Mrs Satwant Khanna though 90, came all the way to bless Gobind. Ambu Bhenji and Baggi Veer join her.
Gobind gets blessings from uncle Hardeep Gulati and is seen here with Geet and cousins Sahib and Heer.
The warmth of the sangat, the blessings of Guru Sahib, and the prayers of all our family and friends surrounded Gobind as he prepared for this new chapter in life.
Unwinding with Pizza dinner at home.
Family Blessings on Gobind
Yet, as the evening came to a close, I felt a deep sadness too—realizing that now our dear Gobind was truly on the brink of leaving this home, stepping out into the world on his own.
A day before his departure, Gobind came to my room and asked with a smile, “Dadaji, will you be crying when I leave home?” It has always been my lighthearted joke with my grandchildren that when they leave, I cry. But this time, I surprised him—and myself. I am not crying. Instead, I feel strong and proud.
Brave and ready for any battle or war.
I see in him a warrior ready to face the world—fully trained, educated, and enriched with our family’s love and memories—to fight the challenges ahead with courage.
Reaching to the lotus feet of Baba ji
I have also taught him where true strength lies: to go directly to Babaji, through Ardaas. This time, his Ardaas was not only fluent but also flawless and confident—so much so that now he can lead it in public. I reminded him never to depend on any person for answers—only on God, Babaji. May he always remember this path.
Blessing the kiddos
With Waheguru’s grace, may Gobind, Jania and Geet remain in Chardi Kala, may Babaji always be with them, guiding them. May Gobind take care of his health, of his family, of his younger siblings and his loving parents—and may he also remember his old grandparents with love.
