Wednesday, November 30, 2011

Mini Taj 'Bibi Ka Maqbara' A Tribute To A Mother



Bibi Ka Maqbara

 
He modeled it on the original Taj Mahal in the form of a hexagon and angles are ornamented with minarets. Bibi-ka-maqbara was built in 1660 by Aurangzeb's son, Azam Shah, as a loving tribute to his mother, Dilras Bano Begam.










Both the famous Taj Mahal in Agra in north-central India, and the lesser-known Bibi-Ka-Makbara, are monuments of love. The orignal is the final resting ground of Mumtaz Mahal. Her husband, Emperor Shah Jahan, had it constructed until his favorite wife passed away in 1629. The Mini-Taj is a tribute to a mother. Prince Azam Khan, son of the Mugal Emperor Aurangzeb, built the Bibi Ka Maqbara in 1679 to honor his mother Rabia Durani, the fourt wife of the Emperor.









While the Taj Mahal was constructed by using white Makrana Marble, this monument was done in innovative Plaster of Paris mixing inter-alia the pearls and precious stones from far and near Seas. According to the "Tawarikh Namah" of Ghulam Mustafa, the cost of construction of the mausoleum was Rs. 6,68,203-7 Annas (Rupees Six Lakh, Sixty Eight Thousand, Two Hundred and Three & Seven Annas) in 1651-1661 A.D. In comparasion, the cost of construction of Taj Mahal was Rs 3, 20,00,000 and was completed in 21 years.


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Friday, November 4, 2011

My welcome at Delhi Indira Gandhi International Airport



To my pleasant surprise. We were all set to be welcomed in a grand Indian way. As usual there were more people to receive than the arriving guests. My dearest and nearest relations Major General Harkirat Singh arranged a VIP welcome. all formalities of immigration and customs clearaces were completed swiftly and out of turn. Harvinder and me really felt elated.

As we were brought to the exit gate through the VIP lounge, our help in the welcome party simply pulled us away from the special gate and directed us to the general exit gate. The reason. The VIP gate had a long line of passengers to be cleared while the general exit was empty. The VIP influence was made redundant.

I felt India is really making progress. This is without any disregards to the right earnest efforts done by my dear relative who in fact had a hearty laugh and was first to point this out to me.


July 2, 2010

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Shades of Old Punjab

Shades Of The Old Punjab




Picture on the left – Joga Singh with a maulvi outside the mosque in Sarwarpur that his brother Sajjan helped reconstruct.

Across rural Punjab, Sikhs and Hindus are helping restore mosques destroyed during Partition

Brothers In Arms

* Around 200 mosques across Punjab have been repaired, rebuilt or built from scratch with the help of Sikhs and Hindus in the last 10 years
* Many destroyed during Partition riots are now being restored by village communities
* In some cases, the Jamaat-e-Islami is involved, but most are unorganised village-level efforts
* It’s a reassertion, after decades, of Punjab’s unique religious and cultural synthesis


The Ghuman family of Sarwarpur, near Ludhiana, cannot understand what the fuss is about. Ever since Sajjan Singh Ghuman, an NRI Sikh living in England, rebuilt a mosque in his native village that was damaged during Partition, the shrine, as well as his family back home, have attracted the curiosity of outsiders. “We never imagined we would be on a Punjabi TV channel just because my elder brother rebuilt this small mosque for the poor Muslim families of our village. For him, it was just a gesture towards restoring the collective heritage of our village,” says Sajjan’s brother, Joga Singh, who manages the family’s lands in Sarwarpur. Sure. But what Joga and his family, or even the TV channel, do not know is that the sentiment that inspired his brother’s act is being manifested in scores of villages across Punjab, with Sikhs and Hindus joining hands to either rebuild old and damaged mosques or build new ones. Odd? Perhaps. But Punjab, as admirers of its unique religious synthesis say, has always defied stereotypes to do its own thing.

That spirit comes through clearly in the actions of a group of school and college boys from 600-year-old Ajitwal village near Moga. During Partition, when Muslims fled Ajitwal, just as they fled in waves from other parts of Punjab, an ancient village mosque was vandalised. As years passed, someone encroached on its grounds and the place became a village dumping ground. A neem tree on its compound became a hang-out for the village youth. One day, a bunch of boys decided to clear the muck. Within days, the entire village—now made up of Hindus and Sikhs—joined them. Says 20-year-old Laddi: “We were never short of money or material. Anyone who passed this way would contribute in cash or kind. Someone brought five bags of cement, another donated bricks and so on….” This, when there were no permanent Muslim families left in the village. But, once repaired, the mosque began to be used. A few Muslim migrants from Uttar Pradesh and Bihar, labourers and petty tradespeople, began praying here. A maulvi from a neighbouring village now comes to conduct Friday namaaz. To the delight of 80-year-old Nachattar Kaur, who was born and brought up here, the sound of the azaan (call to prayer) is being heard again, after decades. “We have always believed in this shrine,” she says. “It is a house of God. God bless these boys for restoring the oldest relic of our village.”
 

Muezzin’s call: Worshippers at the Dhuri mosque

In Malerkotla, the headquarters of the state unit of Jamaat-e-Islami (Hind), publisher and Jamaat member Ramzan Sayeed, who has also translated the Quran into Punjabi, observes, “It is only in Punjab that Sikhs and Hindus are helping to build masjids with tractors, labour and money.” That this should happen at a time when Islamists are being reviled and resisted across the world makes it remarkable; and that it should be happening in a land where the soil is soaked with the blood of Partition, and stories of murder, **** and looting have been passed down the generations, renders it especially significant.

In the months after Partition, some 50,000 mosques across present-day Punjab, Haryana and Himachal Pradesh were destroyed, burnt or converted into temples and gurudwaras—homes, even. Today, Muslims comprise just 1.5 per cent of Punjab’s population, mostly migrant labour from UP and Bihar and some Gujjar families from Jammu and Kashmir who have settled here, in addition to small pockets of Muslims, such as those belonging to Malerkotla, who did not go to Pakistan in 1947.
 

Not mere mortar and bricks Students of Ajitwal village, near Moga, rebuilt the ancient masjid

However, in the last decade or so, the Jamaat has managed, with extraordinary village-level support, including money and materials, to free and revive about 120 mosques. Scores of others, like the one at Ajitwal, have been revived or rebuilt purely by villagers themselves. Jamaat president Arshad Ali told Outlook, “We consciously involve Sikhs and Hindus whenever we help build a new mosque or repair an old one; and every time, the community’s response is overwhelming.” He reels off the names of scores of villages where this has happened. One of them, Diwa Gandwan in Fatehgarh Sahib, has only 17 Muslim families, most of them poor labourers. Mohammed Jameel, a farm labourer who lives in the village, told Outlook, “We never imagined we could have a masjid of our own, but we do now. It would not have been possible without the help of the Sikh landlords here, who filled up the low-lying area by bringing us earth in their tractor trollies.” The first brick of the mosque was laid by a Sikh priest from Fatehgarh Sahib, who also donated money.

Arshad Ali contrasts this attitude with the one that prevailed when he began working for the Jamaat in Punjab some 30 years ago: “We used to face opposition whenever we tried to assert ourselves. But all that has changed now. Our effort to construct masjids is helping foster religious brotherhood in Punjab.” Hassan Mohammed, the imam of the Jama Masjid at Mandi Gobindgarh, recalls that last year, when he tried to mobilise Muslims of Jhampur village to rebuild their village mosque, they were afraid of even the suggestion. He then approached the sarpanch, a Jat Sikh, who immediately got a few boys to clear the overgrown area. Other villagers chipped in with contributions in cash and kind and, soon, what was once a crumbling ruin became a vibrant place of worship. Such stories abound in rural Punjab today.

There are no clear-cut answers for why this is happening. It helps, clearly, that Muslims are only a tiny, largely poor, community here, no threat to anyone, and that sympathy for the underdog is a distinctive Punjabi—especially Jat Sikh—trait. But that’s only a partial explanation, as is the other obvious one—that this is a manifestation of collective guilt over the atrocities committed by Sikhs and Hindus against Muslims during Partition.

Guilt could be a factor, acknowledges Sikh historian and writer Prof Gurdarshan Singh Dhillon, “There is no doubt,” he says, “that the atrocities of Partition are a blot on the history of the Sikhs. We, as a martial race, are not supposed to attack the weak and unarmed, but it happened, and ever since then, there has been remorse.” He recalls how a few years before his death, Gurcharan Singh Tohra, long-time president of the Shiromani Gurudwara Prabandhak Committee (SGPC), confessed that he too had killed a Muslim during the Partition riots and felt haunted by his act. Possibly to atone for the act, Tohra constructed a mosque in his native village and laid its first brick with his own hands.

On the other hand, much of the present effort to revive mosques is coming from a generation that does not have the blood of Partition on its hands; one that has witnessed and endured, rather, the violent Sikh separatism during the ’80s. That’s why Pramod Kumar, director of the Chandigarh-based Institute of Development and Communications, feels this is “the collective reassertion of Punjab’s unique cultural synthesis” and “an attempt to build a secular Punjabi identity, as opposed to a communal identity or religious one”.

But predictably, radical Sikh scholar, Prof Gurtej Singh, takes a different line: “This is an instinctive manifestation of the Sikh’s disillusionment with a Hindu-dominated Indian state that has done all it can to obliterate Sikh identity. During Partition, we were made to believe that Muslims were our enemies and we massacred them in large numbers. We have now realised that not Muslims, but Hindu-dominated parties like the BJP are the real threat to our identity.” Pointing out that Sikhs and Muslims have gradually come to value each other, he relates an anecdote about Shia Muslims recently discovering how Sikhs protected one of their shrines in Samana in Punjab, and how they are returning the gesture by helping Sikhs build gurudwaras in the Gulf. He also lauds Pakistan for enacting a Sikh Marriage Act which he helped draft, whereas India is yet to do so. “These things,” he says, “accumulate in the popular psyche, and manifest themselves in various ways”.

 
Sikhs, Hindus and Muslims at the mosque site

But try telling 67-year-old Kesar Singh or 24-year-old Kamal Vohra that this is only a story of Sikh-Muslim bhaichara. Kesar, a Jat Sikh farmer from Ratia, some 15 km from Dhuri, a Hindu-dominated town in Sangrur district, and Kamal, a Hindu whose family migrated from Sialkot in Pakistan, have slogged shoulder to shoulder for days to rebuild Dhuri’s lone mosque. Kesar admits to a special bond with the mosque, which he visits every week, along with 20 other Sikhs of Ratia, for Friday namaaz. “The old imam has been my friend for the last 50 years and I enjoy his liberal interpretation of the Quran,” says he. But when the old mosque was demolished to make a bigger structure, it wasn’t just Sikhs but the entire Hindu mohalla that helped dig the foundations. Hindus and Sikhs from nearby villages, too, contributed with hefty donations. As always, Punjab never fails to surprise.

Shades Of The Old Punjab


June 28, 2010.

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Sundar Mundrye, Hoe!

Sunder mundriye hoe!

Tera kaun wicahara hoe!

Dullah bhatti walla hoe!

Dullahe di dhee vyayae hoe!

Ser shakkar payee hoe!

Kudi da laal pachaka hoe!

Kudi da saalu paatta hoe!

Salu kaun samete!

Mamhe choori kutti!

zamidara lutti!

Zamindaar sudhaye!

bade bhole aaye!

Ek bhola reh gaya!

Sipahee pakad ke lai gaya!

Sipahee ne mari eet!

Sanoo de de lohri te teri jeeve jodi! (Cry or howl!)Paheenve ro te phannve pit! "

(Rhyming: beautiful one like a ringlet one!)Who will save you poor one (to a rescued girl)Dullah Bhatti is here for you (He rescued the girls who were abandoned and rejected after kidnap!)The Duallah married off his daughter (the rescued girls were adopted by him as his daughters)He gave a measure (sher about a kilo)of sugar!The girl is wearing bridal red dress!But her shawl is torn (poor and soiled-girl has been raped?)!Who will stitch her shawl(repair her reputation)?!

The maternal uncle made sweet ghee bread (choori)! (maternal uncles were responsible to vouch for chastity of the girl)

The landlords ravished it (meaning the girl kidnapped by rich moghul landlords!)!He made the landlords eat a lot!Lots of innocent guys came (poor grooms)One innocent boy got left behind (the poorest of poor!)The soldiers arrested him! (Indicated that he was in collusion with Bhatti the rebel)The soldiers hit him with a brick! (tortured him)Cry or howl!Give us lohri (gifts) ..long live you couple!"

 Give me Lohri Now!

Jan 13, 2011

Thursday, November 3, 2011

Women -An Under-Utilized Resource

Women are still an under-utilized resource.  Nothing like it used to be, but there's just no question about optimizing this vast resource. I was lucky -- when I was born at the outset of pre-partition of the country, I won an ovarian lottery. Being born into a landlord family with large agricultural lands and real estate spread all over in Western Punjab, I was the oldest male with four younger sisters. The family, however, passed hard times with meager means in a new migrated place. Finally after the marriages of my sisters and my fathers retirement from the Government service, the charge of managing our estate fell on my dhoulders. Finally as the cultural tradition prevalent in those times, I inherited the entire estate of my Dad after his demise. Now I feel my life would have been vastly different if I had been born as a female.

Being the only son, I would be the pet kid of the family and near relations. I will be given special diet to make more healthy and sturdy and the irony was my younger sisters would be sturdy and even more healthy looking. I was the one who will be given almonds to keep my brain sharp. My sisters would not care and will never complain about the inferior treatment given to them. I was quiet well aware of son advantage and  made me behave pampered. To get unreasonable demands met, I would often refuse to eat my meals and would resume only after the unfair demands were met. so I had an advantage -son all the times over my sisters. But even with special diet to me, as a child I was comparatively week and feeble looking while all my sisters were healthy and stout.
 
It is not that our parents did not try for another son. A son was born before my second sister but he died instantly after his birth. But there after three sisters were born one after the other. When my fourth sister was born, a gloom descended at our place. Nobody welcomed the new child and no naming ceremony was done for a full week as is customery to do so immediately after the birth. 

When a distant aunt of ours came to see the newly born child, she announced her name as Tripat meaning that the family has reached the extent of contentment to have any more son or to say any more kids. Such was the eagerness to add a male child. Here the family intended to complete a pair of sons. That was not to be.

But it is usually seen that no two sons go together in the long run and oftenly becoming victim to jealous ness and greed to acquire and grab more share of free unearned assets of their parents.  They often vigorously pursue long court battles at the sake of old age parents health and service.

I would like to narate a story which is self explanatory below:
"Regarding Young bachelor's  experience with his prospective father-in-law, this is typical – beware when you marry an Indian woman, especially from a business family. These same parents of girls will first discriminate against that girl, cheat her out of her property rights and inheritance, favor her younger brothers in food education & life opportunities, call her “paraya dhan” aka “someone else’s wealth” ( yes, humans as property! isn’t that what slavery was about?). The whole mindset is: “let me palm her off on someone else, while I build my empire for my son’s benefit”. Of course, they will then shop around for the “respectable and well-to-do” son-in-law. 

I have felt many times that I am a partner to a big cheating which I helplesslly continue to look on. My sisters were born to same father and mother and the God made us like that but the social structure in the Indian culture made us do this unjustice. 

But I see a ray of hope due to recent legislated laws and fully believe and hope that the gender difference will not play that role for my grand kids who inherit my estate in India. The culture is changing for the good

Punjab - Star of India's rise, Faces steep fall

By Nikita Garia

Once India’s fastest-growing state, Punjab’s economic crisis shows that the country’s rapid growth cannot be taken for granted. Many readers shared insightful comments on the state’s economic decline in the Comments section of The Wall Street Journal’s story “Punjab, Star of India’s Rise, Faces Steep Fall.” Here is a roundup of what readers had to say on the fall of Punjab:

Punjab’s economic crisis shows that the country’s rapid growth cannot be taken for granted.
“That is the story of India. Corruption and negligence by the Government,” said reader “Juhan Singha.”

Many agreed that populist programs such as free electricity to farmers caused more damage than good to Punjab’s economy. Reader “shirish kokatay,” pointed out that giving farmers subsidies for power removed the “incentive to be smart or frugal about using this precious resource…while the rest of the citizens of the state pay for this potentially huge inefficiency and waste in form of higher taxes or reduced state services.”

Others drew attention to the environmental costs of these policies. “Richard Mango,” said that by switching from wheat to more water-intensive crops like rice, Punjab has done “irreparable damage to the aquifer.”

“Ravi Singh,” noted that environmental issues are more pressing than the state’s governance troubles. Noting that “In many respects the 1960s green revolution was a disaster for Punjab,” he said that “Forty years of intensive irrigation, fertilization, and pesticides have not been kind to the loamy gray fields” of the state.

All agreed politicians were to blame. Reader “Daljit Singh,” said that “the responsibility for mismanagement must lie with the leadership of the state regardless of their political affiliation. On a more positive note, the reader added that “There is much potential for growth in Punjab, but, there is a very small pool of enlightened leadership. It must be cultivated. Get over the issues of caste, religion and communal hang ups. The time is running out.”

Readers also argued that the state needed leaders who can provide employment opportunities for its college-educated youth. “The biggest problem in Punjab is that there are thousands of engineering colleges but no industry and so students have to go to other states to find work,” said “Danish Kapur.”

Some lamented the lack of facilities and the state’s poor infrastructure. “Basic services are not always provided and there’s a high degree of inefficiency and inability to make progress because of the politically-supported unions and the incessant corruption,” said “Rohit Vedhara.” He added that Punjab was famous for its food and culture, but “sadly not as a progressive hotbed of broad-based entrepreneurial talent and innovation”.


Another reader, “Sarah McKenzie,” drew a comparison between India’s economy and China’s – the other Asian giant. “Compare and contrast this with China, where all provinces are racing ahead at breathtaking speed into modernity. There is no lack of funding, hard work, innovation or hope in Chinese provinces,” she said, though other commentators didn’t always agree.

My Dream Train Delhi to Sangrur from 4th Nov, 2011

Delhi-Ludhiana Shatabdi to chug off from today
Tribune News Service

Chandigarh, November 3
The Delhi-Ludhiana Shatabdi train, which will traverse via Rohtak and Sangrur, will be flagged off by Minister of State for Railways KH Muniyappa from Ludhiana tomorrow. The Shatabdi, which has come about following an initiative of Ludhiana MP Manish Tewari, is in fact the restarting of an earlier service which ran for only three months in 2008.

Manish Tewari said the Shatabdi would be a boon for commuters of Ludhiana who wished to reach Delhi late in the evening to catch international flights. He said the reverse was also true for Punjabis coming from abroad as the train restarted on its journey back to Ludhiana early in the morning from Delhi.

Tewari claimed that the train had been temporarily routed through Rohtak-Sangrur because of congestion on the main Ambala trunk line.

The Railways authorities, however, claim that the Shatabdi is likely to continue plying on the Rohtak-Sangrur track. The Northern Railway General Manager SK Budhalakoti, when contacted, said the present route was a permanent arrangement. He said the route via Ambala was saturated and moreover it was the endeavour of the Railways to provide superior Shatabdi services to new places. “The present train is serving new points of Rohtak and Sangrur”, he added.

The Rohtak-Sangrur route is likely to increase the journey time because the Shatabdi cannot travel on high speed on it. There is only a marginal increase of 11 km as far as distance is concerned. The Railways GM said the train, which was presently scheduled to run for four days a week on Monday, Tuesday, Friday and Saturday, would start running for six days a week once the Railways got a new rake for the train.

Meanwhile, the Sangrur MP Vijay Inder Singla claimed he had submitted a written letter to the former Railway Minister Mamata Banerjee on the day she announced the train in the Railway Budget urging the train run through Sangrur. He said he had made a similar request to the Prime Minister who had acknowledged the same and assured him that he would look into the matter. He thanked both of them for providing this service to the Malwa region in Punjab. 

 

A New beginning
l The Shatabdi will be a boon for commuters of Ludhiana who wish to reach Delhi late in the evening to catch international flights

l The train has been temporarily routed through Rohtak-Sangrur because of congestion on the main Ambala trunk line

l The train, which is scheduled to run for four days a week on Monday, Tuesday, Friday and Saturday, will start running for six days a week once the Railways gets a new rake

Wednesday, November 2, 2011

Our Pet Tweety 2011

On Animal Day, Let me introduce our family Pet 'Tweety' a nine years old Yellow-headed Amazon. This is one of the Amazon parrot species which are commonly kept as pets. Amazon parrots are known for their exceptional vocal abilities, playfulness, and dexterity with their feet. 
Hand reared parrots, which Tweety is, are very loyal companions and they can live for 50 years or more in captivity. 
In order to maintain health and happiness, pet parrots require much more attention than domesticated animals such as dogs or cats. They require communication, manipulative toys, supervised time out of the cage.
This Halloween, Tweety was very busy welcoming the kids saying repeatedly 'How are you doing?' while sitting on the the top back of the chair at the front gate.
Tweety even allowed to get himself pictured with some of the guests.
This was happy Halloween indeed for all of us.




Our Family Parrot 'Tweety'




On Animal Day Nov 2 2011, Let me introduce our family Pet 'Tweety' a nine years old Yellow-headed Amazon. This is one of the Amazon parrot species which are commonly kept as pets. Amazon parrots are known for their exceptional vocal abilities, playfulness, and dexterity with their feet.



Hand reared parrots, which Tweety is, are very loyal companions and they can live for 50 years or more in captivity.


In order to maintain health and happiness, pet parrots require much more attention than domesticated animals such as dogs or cats. They require communication, manipulative toys, supervised time out of the cage.


This Halloween, Tweety was very busy welcoming the kids saying repeatedly 'How are you doing?' while sitting on the the top back of the chair at the front gate.


Tweety even allowed to get himself pictured with some of the guests.


This was happy Halloween indeed for all of us.