Saturday, June 28, 2025

‘A turban With Honor’ gift to Gobind friend



Haydon -A look of typical Majestic Sikh from Punjab


When Gobind was in his senior year at Dougherty Valley High School in San Ramon, California, he once approached me with a thoughtful request. 


Kartik another class fellow of Gobind doing the shoot

One of his Caucasian friends Haydon had taken a deep interest in Sikh traditions and expressed a desire to experience the tying of a turban.


Gobind asked, “Dadaji, can we help him tie a turban the same way?”


I smiled and said, “Yes, why not?”






During the school holidays, his friends Haydon and Kartik came over to our home on Sep14, 2019. I selected a turban from my own collection and carefully folded it—a process we call ‘Poonee’, preparing it for the traditional wrap around the head.


Gobind helped me to do ‘Poonee’

We seated him in our living room, and before beginning, we shared a few words about the significance of the turban. I explained that it is not just a piece of cloth, but a symbol of honour, dignity, and identity. It represents respect—not only for oneself but for the values it stands for. 


Giving respect to the turban is the prime moto.

We told him it must never be thrown on the ground or treated carelessly. It is to be worn and handled with reverence.


Haydon looks really majestic. After the decorated on him.

I then tied the turban on him. He was a tall young man with a broad face, and the turban sat perfectly—majestic and dignified. It suited him beautifully, and everyone present could feel the moment’s meaning.


Before he left, we gifted him that same turban, hoping that one day, he might feel inspired to wear it again. Whether he does or not, the memory remains special—a gesture of respect and friendship, wrapped in tradition and understanding.


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