Friday, August 14, 2026

Unforgettable August 13, 1973

August 13 — A Birthday of Joy and Remembrance

AI Sketch of me and Harvinder missing our first born baby girl.

Today we celebrated Harvinder’s 71st birthday, surrounded by the love and affection of our family. Yet August 13 always brings a quiet tear to our eyes, because it is also the birthday of our first child a daughter born in 1973.

At that time, I was posted on a project in Nepal, while Harvinder was in New Delhi under the loving care of my parents and with access to some of the best doctors in AIIMS Delhi. She was under the persona care of Dr Bakshi a renowned gynecologist and head of the Department. Our daughter was born a healthy seven-and-a-half-pound baby. My mother later described her as a beautiful little doll with dark hair who looked just like Harvinder.

Sadly, she survived for less than twenty-four hours. I was away and never had the chance to see or hold my first baby daughter. The pediatrician later explained that sometimes even medical science has no answer for such happenings.

More than half a century has passed. Every August 13, while we joyfully celebrate Harvinder’s birthday, both of us quietly remember our little girl and sometimes wonder how life might have been with a daughter and a son.


Jania, Shilpy, Harvinder and baby Geet


Perhaps that is why, when grand daughters Jania and Geet later came into our family, my happiness knew no bounds. Somewhere within me, I felt that the daughter I could never hold had returned to fill our lives with the joy of daughters.

Fate has its own writing. We accept it with gratitude to Waheguru but a father’s heart never forgets the child he never had the chance to hold.


Thursday, August 13, 2026

A Bond Across Five Generations Refugee Familees

A Bond Across Five

Families pose for a group photo.

After Partition, my Nani Ji, Kesari Bai was allotted a 200-square-yard house at No. 20, Block I, Jangpura Extension, a rehabilitation colony in Delhi. In the early 1950s, each allottee had to pay the then-princely sum of ₹5,000, either in cash or through claims against properties abandoned in Pakistan. In return, they received a well-built house comprising two rooms, a kitchen, a veranda, and a washroom, all under a flat RCC roof.

Among her neighbors was Mohan Lal Kohli Ji, whose family lived at No. 24. Their back doors were close, but their hearts became even closer.

Revered Mohan Lal ji Kohli with young Vinod


Mohan Lal Ji lived there with his wife, Pushpa Ji, and their six children—three sons, Joginder Pal, Vijay and Vinod, and three daughters, Kamla, Bimla and Sunita. Due to size of the family and affluence in their business, Kohlis were one of firsts in Jangpura Extension to add more rooms.

Newly married Vinod and his beloved wife Ritu with his mom

Seeing Nani Ji living largely on her own, Mohan Lal Ji treated her like his own mother, with extraordinary love and respect. No important ceremony in the Kohli family was complete without her presence. She became their virtual Dadi Ji and an inseparable part of the family.

When I moved to Delhi for my first job, I stayed with Nani Ji and came to know the Kohlis closely. They were a prosperous business family in the booming motor-parts trade of Kashmiri Gate Delhi.



Harvinder and me with Vinod Ji on one of his annual trips to USA


My earliest memory of Vinod, the youngest son, is of a young man constantly absorbed in his books, often studying on the staircase landing. Soon I learned that he had entered the prestigious IIT Delhi.

Later, I moved to my own house in Jangpura A Block. With the passing of Nani Ji and Mohan Lal Ji, our contact gradually diminished. Remarkably, almost three decades later, Vinod Ji and I reconnected, and in 2005 we started a business together, an association that continues to this day. Shiv is astonished to note how partners in business are getting stronger and stronger in relation day by day.

Shiv, Shilpy with Vinod, Aman, Mitali and Arahm


Yesterday, Aman and his family visited us from Seattle, giving us another opportunity to celebrate this remarkable relationship. We gathered for dinner at Paratha House in Pleasanton, where Mitali Kohli and Shilpy Kapoor coordinated the mouth-watering paratha orders and made the evening even more enjoyable.

Arahm, Geet and Jania had a fun get-together.

Looking around the table, I realized how many generations this friendship now embraces. On our side, the chain runs from Nani Ji to my mother Savitri Devi to me, to Shiv, and now to Shiv’s three children—Gobind, Jania and Geet. On the Kohli side, it has travelled from adopted mother Nani Ji to Mohan Lal Ji to Vinod Ji, to Aman and now to Arham. We missed many Kohli family members particularly US based Sunny &  Rinu; Ashish & Shilpy and their lovely kids Kiaan and Kabir

What started between two neighboring refugee homes in Jangpura has survived changing times, changing countries and changing generations.


The boys pose together after sumptuous Paratha dinner.


What a lovely union, two families connected not by blood, but by love, respect and affection carried forward from one generation to the next.


Thursday, July 30, 2026

Nindi and Me

When today Nindi (Narinder) my first cousin and my fondest cousin, informed me of our age differences, I smiled because I have known this all along.

Nindi and Me at Neha’s wedding on May 25, 1996 when we met after 36 years in Washington DC.

Nindi, you are two years older than me; your brother Sindi (Surinder) is three years older, and Didi Pushpa is four years older.

Masi Lachmi always used to say that because we were the closest in age, we should remain friends. And indeed, even now, in our eighties, we continue to be good friends, exchanging our thoughts and views, even when they differ, despite living in distant corners of the world. Our chat exchanges are unprompted even today.

Nindi has always been the School topper, scholarly and brilliant one, while I have remained an average street walker, learning life’s lessons from experience rather than books. Yet our friendship has stood the test of time, and I truly cherish it.


Wednesday, July 29, 2026

A Blessed 82-Year Journey

A Blessed 82-Year Journey

Always in high-spirits and contented.


Today, I feel truly blessed to have completed 82 years of a fulfilling and rewarding life. As I look back, my heart is filled with gratitude.

Enjoying together


My greatest blessing has been my life partner, Harvinder, who has stood beside me like a rock for the past 54 years. Though younger than me, I have always looked to her for support, advice, and strength. She has done far more than simply stand by me. She has been an equal partner in every chapter of my life, from my government service to one business after another, and now in our philanthropic endeavors. Whatever I have been able to achieve bears her silent yet invaluable contribution.

Shiv and Shilpy


I am equally grateful for my son, Shivpreet Singh, a brilliant, compassionate, and deeply spiritual soul. Shiv has worked hard to excel as a Biotechnology professional, a Spiritual music-artist and a Philanthropist.

Throughout his life, he has listened to me with respect and remained close to our family. I do not claim credit for his remarkable achievements, for they are the result of his own talent, dedication, and God’s grace. Yet I take quiet satisfaction in knowing that I may have played a small role in shaping his journey. Through professional successes, difficult setbacks, and meaningful contributions to society through the DhunAnand Foundation, he has continued to make us proud. He is wonderfully supported by his wife, Shilpy, who balances a demanding career as a software product manager while standing firmly beside him in every

Gobind

Jania 

Geet

Our three grandchildren Gobind, Jania, and Geet are each working hard to pursue their dreams. Watching them grow into capable, thoughtful, and compassionate young individuals has been one of the greatest joys of my life. I pray that they continue to flourish and make meaningful contributions to the world.

Above all, I thank Waheguru ji for giving me the desire and opportunity to serve others through philanthropy and community work. I also feel fortunate that, even at this age, I am able to remain active, attend to my daily responsibilities, and enjoy the love and companionship of my family.

On this special day, I bow my head in gratitude to the Almighty for blessing me with a beautiful life, a loving family, and the privilege of witnessing their happiness and progress. I pray that I may continue to live with good health, purpose, humility, and gratitude, always striving for the welfare of others.

Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa, Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh.


Monday, July 27, 2026

A Windfall for Shiv Kapoor

A Windfall for Shiv Kapoor


Shiv Kapoor - the Sciencist 

A couple of years ago, Shiv was vacationing with his son, Gobind, who had just completed his hard-earned double major in Mathematics and Computer Science at the University of California, Davis. 

Shiv and Gobind reach their home in Badbar.

To give Gobind a well-deserved break after years of academic rigor, Shiv planned a memorable trip through Europe and later in  India. Their journey took them to Delhi, Gurugram, Chandigarh, Shimla, and finally to our ancestral village of Badbar.

Oberoi Cecil, Shimla

While relaxing in Shimla, Shiv received an unexpected call from a longtime colleague in the biotechnology industry. The colleague requested that Shiv join the board of directors of a biotech company that was then going through a difficult phase. Having known and trusted him for nearly two decades, Shiv agreed. Right from his hotel room in Shimla, he signed the necessary documents electronically using the hotel’s internet connection.

Since then, Shiv has devoted considerable time to the company, participating in regular board meetings and helping guide its direction.

Wall Street brightens up for Shiv

Today came the wonderful news that the company has been successfully acquired, bringing significant value to its shareholders. Shiv, being one of them, is also among the beneficiaries. It marks the first time he has received such a substantial financial reward from an investment of this nature.

The shares rise

For our family, however, this success represents far more than financial gain. We see it as the reward for hard work, sound judgment, and, above all, the blessings of the Almighty. It is also a reminder that those who quietly dedicate their time, talent, and resources to the service of humanity are often blessed in unexpected ways. Through the DhunAnand Foundation, Shiv has generously supported educational, cultural, and humanitarian causes without ever seeking recognition.

Harvinder praying Ardas and disbursed Karah Parsad.

Equally inspiring is the possibility that the drug being developed by the company may one day relieve the sufferings of millions of people around the world. May the Almighty continue to bless Shiv with the wisdom and humility to use this success and talents in the service of humanity. We offer our heartfelt gratitude for His countless blessings.


Tuesday, July 21, 2026

Factors responsible for Amicable repossessing the lands

Why I Was Finally Able to Reclaim Possession of My Land

Harvinder standing on the new boundary “Watt” with recent installed Burjees.

It has now been more than a month since I successfully regained possession of the land that had been encroached upon by neighboring farmers, whether by mistake or deliberately, over many decades. Looking back, I believe several factors contributed to this peaceful and successful resolution.


1. Determination and patience

Having ‘Gur Tea’ in the farms.


The foremost reason was my and Harvinder’s unwavering determination to recover both the correct demarcation and physical possession of my land. This was not a battle of days or months, but of many years. Patience proved to be our greatest strength.


2. Learning from past mistakes

Demarcation in Mar 2025 conducted when the crops were yet to be harvested, was a grave mistake. I wanted to push through due constraints to go back.


Earlier, I had succeeded in getting the land measured, but I failed to secure actual possession of the encroached area. This time, I made sure that the process did not end with demarcation alone. I remained focused until possession was also restored.


3. Cooperation and support from the police

Visit by Punjab Police to inspect the site of dispute.


The support of the local police was invaluable. Their timely intervention, balanced approach, and willingness to maintain law and order were crucial in preventing the dispute from escalating. This support was made possible through the intervention of respected and appropriate well-wisher who spoke to the police on my behalf. At the same time, I ensured that the police officials were treated with due respect and courtesy throughout the process. Their cooperation created the confidence needed for both sides to eventually accept the lawful demarcation and hand over possession peacefully.

4. Accepting the truth about the disputed well.

The well is surrounded by old trees, it’s dry today though.


One important turning point involved an old irrigation well. My late father and I had always believed that the well was jointly owned by our family and our Mistry neighbors. However, when the revenue records were carefully examined, the Kanungo pointed out that the well, located in Khasra No. 193/26, had never been recorded in our family’s ownership. It appeared only in the Mistry family’s revenue records.


The marking of 193/26 and its adjoining well.

After verifying the documents with Mistrees myself, I realized that our long-held belief was incorrect. I immediately accepted the facts and willingly gave up any claim to the well. This honest acceptance created trust and goodwill with the neighbors.

At the same time, it became clear during the official measurements that while the well rightfully belonged to them, they were also occupying portions of my land beyond their legal entitlement. The facts were now evident to everyone.

The access path leading to the well, along with nearly half an acre of adjoining land that had remained uncultivated for years, was restored to me. Although one of the neighbors initially resisted giving up the remaining encroached land, after several days of discussions he too agreed, and possession was peacefully handed over.

5. Support from village leadership



Kisan Morcha Jwala Pardhan with yellow turbans helping mark the boundaries called “Watt”.


I also received wholehearted support from the village Sarpanch, respected villagers, and local Cooperative and Kisan Morcha leaders, particularly Jwala Pradhan. The villagers by now were aware of the fact that DhunAnand Foundations of Shivpreet Sardar was helping village School students. Equally invaluable was the guidance of Meghraj, who has managed the lease of my farmland for the past fifteen years. A hardworking, experienced, and wise man, Meghraj, a Brahmin by caste and a regular attendee of Radha Soami Satsangs, stood by me throughout the entire process. His practical judgment, deep understanding of the local situation, and calm advice made him my true right-hand man.

Meghraj an experienced tiller and a farmer was my right hand side.

From the very beginning, Meghraj and I had resolved that if the situation showed any signs of turning violent, we would immediately withdraw rather than allow bloodshed over land. At one stage, we even considered keeping licensed arms for self-defence because of the tense circumstances as the neighbors had all turned against Meghraj who in their opinion was passing on all weak points to Sardar. Fortunately, wisdom, restraint, and the cooperation of all concerned prevailed, and the matter was ultimately resolved peacefully.


6. Public opinion and changing circumstances

New “Watt” the boundary line


New Boundary poles “Burjees” are now been reinstated with mutual consent. The boundaries will be fortified after paddy season.Hogar.

Another contributing factor was that many villagers had become unhappy with the behavior of one of the Mistry brothers, whose arrogance and frequent quarrels had alienated people. In a recent incident, he had even injured the head of my leaseholder. Moreover, there were differences within their own family. These circumstances created an environment in which fairness and justice received greater community support.

7. Above all, Waheguru’s blessings
Ultimately, I believe that none of this would have been possible without Waheguru’s grace. Every factor came together at the right time, and the matter was resolved amicably without violence or prolonged litigation.

Paddy sown with Safeda tree in our portion of land.

Today, the reclaimed land has already been sown with paddy. Watching the young crop growing on land that has finally returned to its rightful owner is deeply satisfying. 

Kapoor Family

It reminds me that patience, honesty, perseverance, and faith can ultimately prevail over even the longest-standing disputes. Dedicated to my beautiful family