Saturday, November 29, 2025

Jania Artistic and Creative


Alongside her strong academic abilities, Jania is remarkably artistic, creative, and quick to learn new skills. Whether she is baking breads that rise perfectly or decorating cakes with finesse, her hands seem naturally gifted. I recently discovered yet another expression of her creativity, nail painting. 


With the same patience and precision she applies to her studies, she prepares the nails by gently pushing back the cuticles, filing them evenly, and applying a thin base coat. Then, using the classic three-stroke method, she paints each nail in thin, even layers, one stroke on each side and a final sweep down the center. She finishes with a protective top coat, carefully sealing the tips, and allows the nails to dry completely, often using a fan to speed the process. 


Watching her work, I realized how her artistic mind, steady hands, and attention to detail shine through in everything she does. She is naturally gifted, and I wish her all the very best as she continues to excel in every field she touches.


Thursday, November 27, 2025

Gobind Joins family on ‘Thanksgiving’


Gobind was returning home for the first time after starting his new job in Boston, which he joined in August 2025. He had planned to be with the family for Thanksgiving and booked a red-eye flight after finishing his office work. His flight was scheduled to leave Boston at 9 p.m. and arrive here around 1 a.m. the next morning. While waiting to board, he was texting with us and mentioned that he would sleep as soon as he got on the plane.


A little later, he informed us that the flight was experiencing some technical difficulties and might have to be diverted, though he did not know the exact reason. Inside the cabin, he felt completely normal, no turbulence, no discomfort. So he had no idea how serious the issue might be.


This morning, while Gobind was still sleeping, I came across a news report explaining what had actually happened. JetBlue flight 733 had suddenly dropped in altitude from 35,000 feet due to a reported “flight control issue.” The cause is not yet clear and may involve the aircraft’s software, wing flaps, or autopilot system. The pilots made an emergency landing in Detroit, and some passengers were taken to a local hospital for evaluation. JetBlue and the FAA are now investigating, and the aircraft has been taken out of service for inspection.


Gobind changed planes in Detroit and eventually reached home safely at 4:30 a.m. about three hours late than schedule. Shiv and Shilpy went to pick him up.



Thanks Waheguru ji for Your blessings and for being Ang Sang.

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Nov 29, 2025

8.30 AM 

Today, another update appeared in the news: Airbus is temporarily grounding a large number of its A320 family aircraft worldwide due to a software issue in the flight control systems that may be affected by intense solar radiation. An urgent recall has been issued for approximately 6,000 planes to apply a software fix, which is expected to cause significant flight delays and cancellations. This development sheds more light on what might have affected Gobind’s flight. He has also to watch his return flight changes.


Tuesday, November 25, 2025

Heer’s 10th Birthday


Heer is the sweetest daughter of my favorite niece, Jasleen and her husband Hardeep. She just celebrated her 10th birthday—now stepping into double digits! This is a wonderful milestone for her and for the entire Gulati family.

Heer and Geet always glued together. Here is they are enjoying Langar


Heer and Geet have been closely connected since early childhood, always glued to each other on the phone and iPad. Though she is younger than Geet, the two merge beautifully together.

Cake cutting on Heers 10th


Heer on Geet’s Birthday, no party can be complete without their presence together


Shiv, Shilpy, and Geet all reached on time to celebrate the occasion in Sacramento, more than 100 miles away. 


Tent fun playing for hours - the reason for staying over night

Getting naughty

Geet and Heer, sitting lovingly in the laps of their older big brothers, look so remarkably similar. Their sweet faces and expressions show such a beautiful family resemblance.


Together on land and in water

Under the strict eyes of mom Jasleen and mom Shilpy

This time, Geet was determined to stay overnight so she could spend the night with her favorite cousin and they had a joyful, memorable time. Jasleen has sent me some lively pictures, which will surely make my blog more active and colorful.

Geet with Heer and her big brothers Nihal and Saheb


Harvinder and I regret not being able to join the fun.


All my best wishes to her. She is growing into an intelligent, hardworking, and beautiful child. I give her my blessings.


Sunday, November 23, 2025

Matha Tekna

Today, being Sunday, was a Gurdwara Day. Our Gurdwara was observing the sacred martyrdom day of the Ninth Guru, Guru Tegh Bahadur Ji.


Amid the sangat, I suddenly noticed two tiny siblings, no more than two years old, walking hand in hand towards the sanctum to offer their mattha tekna. It was a heart-touching sight. At such a tender age, they were learning the beautiful etiquette of Sikh reverence, how to bow before Sri Guru Granth Sahib Ji.


Moments like these remind us how the values of Sikhism are passed from parents to children, and from the sangat to the next generation. Such pure scenes fill the heart with warmth and hope.


A Little Backyard Love Story


Harvinder moved swiftly to snap Silvery the squirrel

Today was no ordinary day in our backyard. Our dear Bhalu’s girlfriend Silvery, usually a little shy and cautious, finally gathered the courage to come right up to our backyard entry door. She stood there like a brave little queen, tail wagging, eyes sparkling, as if saying, “I am here! Where is my Bhalu?”

Bhalu enjoying his throne without responding to his girl frien Silvery,

 the squirrel.

But destiny had a different plan. Bhalu wasn’t there. We even sent a message upstairs to his owner on the second floor, hoping he might call him down. But no, our beloved Bhalu, being his typical dramatic self, was apparently having one of his “migraine moods,” enjoying peace and quiet somewhere, unaware of the royal visit at his doorstep.

 Bhalu still unaware of Silvery’s visit, enjoying my patting.


Meanwhile, his girlfriend decided this was her moment. With Bhalu out of sight, she took full advantage of the backyard. She pranced around freely, sniffing every corner, rolling on the grass, and enjoying the sunshine as if the whole place belonged to her.


Saturday, November 22, 2025

Honored to have met Satjiv Chahil

Satjiv, Harvinder and me

At the Moon Drunk Qawwali event by Rizwan and Moazzam Fateh Ali Khan, renowned nephews of Ustad Nusrat Fateh Ali Khan—organized by DhunAnand Foundations and its supporters, including our dear friend Sanjog who tirelessly handled successfully the logistics, something unforgettable happened.


Shivpreet explaining to the August gathering on various projects of DhunAnand and how the foundation has helped 61 world-wide Artists 

One of the special invitees that evening was Mr. Satjiv Chahil, an Indo-American business executive known for his leadership roles at Apple Inc., IBM, and HP. He had been invited personally by Shivpreet. Since he is a well-known public figure on the internet, I recognized him instantly. Gathering courage, I stepped forward, introduced myself as Shivpreet Singh’s father, and to my surprise, he reacted with immense warmth.

The famous qawwals put the house on fire. The gatherance was over fill.

He clasped my hand in a heartfelt handshake and said he was a big fan of Shivpreet. He told me he had long wished to meet Shivpreet’s parents—to understand how a son like him was raised with such values, brilliance, and humility. 

At that moment, I also shared a special memory with him. I told him that back in 2001, we had the honor of hosting his parents at our home for a Shabad Kirtan program. Both his mother and father S.Pritam Singh Chahal a 1936 Summer Oympian, had deeply enjoyed that evening. His mother, especially, was so touched that she said it was the first time ever she had attended such a soulful and spiritually and elevating Kirtan gathering in USA. I also mentioned that Harvinder could share with him the heartfelt conversation with she once had with his mother about that memorable day. This recollection brought an instant sense of warmth and connection between us.

Harvinder and me enjoying the house concert.

We continued speaking for quite some time. Discovering that he was from the Lawrence School Snawar, he was delighted, and I then introduced him to Shivpreet’s wife, Shilpy, who is also an alumna of the same school. This added yet another beautiful layer of  connection.


A clip of this gorgeous concert.


After the concert, which he enjoyed thoroughly, enthusiastically taking video clips and applauding along with the rest of the audience, he came to us again. This time, he made a heartfelt request: he wanted both Harvinder and me to pose with him for a photograph.


I was stunned. I had been a fan of Satjiv Chahil for nearly 30 years, ever since I first learned about him. And here he was—he was the one asking me to join him in a picture because of his admiration for Shivpreet. It was beyond anything I had imagined.


He handed his phone to a passer-by, politely requesting them to take the photograph. That moment was priceless—one that Arvind and I will cherish all our lives.


He told us that he would immediately send the picture to his entire family, all of whom deeply appreciate Shivpreet’s Shabad Kirtan, and let them know how fortunate he felt to have met Shivpreet’s parents.

On my side, I was equally moved, deeply touched by Satjiv Chahil’s humility, grace, and charismatic personality. It had been my wish for decades to meet him, and that wish came true in the most unexpected and beautiful way.

Vaheguru may bless him with a long life, and may another opportunity arise for him and Shivpreet to share a moment together again.


Tuesday, November 18, 2025

How the body of Guru Teg Bahadur ji was cremated

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Gurdwara Sis Ganj Sahib as I recall of old times in 1950s


After Partition, our family settled in Panipat, where my father began working as a Rashan (grocery) Inspector. Those were the years when we, my parents, four sisters and I grew up, went to schools/colleges, and spent our childhood. Because all three of my Masis lived in Delhi, we frequently travelled from Panipat to visit our maternal family.

The old Bus stop was just attatched to Old Delhi Railway Station


In those days, the Delhi interstate bus stop was right next to what is now the Old Delhi Railway Station before it moved to Kashmere Gate in 1976. We almost always travelled by bus, rarely by train. But the important part was what happened after we arrived. Every visit to Delhi had a familiar, almost sacred routine: as soon as we alighted from the bus, we would walk through the large park near the Delhi Public Library, cross over, and make our way straight to Gurdwara Sis Ganj Sahib (Delhi).


I also fondly remember travelling on the electric tram that once ran through Chandni Chowk, passing right alongside Gurdwara Sis Ganj Sahib. It was always packed with people, and the narrow street often overflowed with crowds. At times the tram driver had to keep ringing the hand bell, and occasionally even push the crowd aside to make way. Those sights, sounds, and moments remain etched in my mind, timeless memories of an era long gone.


My connection with Gurdwara Sis Ganj Sahib stretches back to those early teenage years. In earlier days, Gurdwara Sis Ganj Sahib was the most visited by devotees of Delhi and New Delhi. My Dad would often go to Chandni Chowk a famous bazar since Mughal days to shop, while we spent time in the gurdwara. 


Roamer Swiss wrist Watch of my Dad

My dad also had a special affection for the small shops on the ground floor of Gurdwara Sis Ganj Sahib. In 1954, he purchased a Roamer Swiss wristwatch for Rs 100 (a handsome amount for those days) from one of those watch sellers. Remarkably, that watch shown above is still working today, a quiet reminder of his choices, his simplicity, and those cherished visits. I, today, took two photos of it, just two minutes apart, and even after all these decades, its hands still move with the same steady rhythm. It feels as if time itself has been carrying forward the warmth of those memories.

Orignal tree trunk under which Guru Ji took the last bath.


The trunk of the original tree under which Guru Tegh Bahadur Ji’s head was severed, along with the historic well from which he bathed during his imprisonment, are both preserved within Gurdwara Sis Ganj Sahib, Chandni Chowk, Delhi.

We always partook in the langar, which in those days was not as large or elaborate as today, served mostly on the upper floor, while the Jodā Ghar was down below, almost like a basement.

It was there, in that sacred space, that my father first introduced me to the powerful and moving stories of the Sikh Gurus, especially the martyrdom of Guru Tegh Bahadur Ji. I vividly remember how we would matha-teko near the old banyan tree preserved below the main Palki Sahib, where the execution took place and how reverently my father explained its significance to me.

Those walks, those lessons, and those early Darshan’s at gurdwara Sis Ganj Sahib shaped my lifelong emotional connection to the story of Guru Tegh Bahadur ji’s supreme sacrifice. 



An image where when Guru Teg Bahadur ji’s body was secretly recovered and cremated wth a Master Plan, while his sacred sweared head was smartly recovered and carried to his home in Anandpur Sahib

At the moment of Guru Tegh Bahadur Ji’s execution, a fierce dust storm struck Delhi, turning the sky black and throwing Chandni Chowk into chaos. In that confusion, Bhai Jaita Ji swiftly wrapped the Guru’s sacred head in a cloth and escaped from the city.


The place where Guru Ji was matured is Sis Ganj Sahib Gurdwara Sahib, Chandni Chowk, Delhi.

Nearby, Bhai Uda, disguised as a Muslim, waited for a chance to rescue the Guru’s body. When the storm calmed, the Mughals deceptively announced that any devotee could take the body, hoping to catch and punish whoever came forward. But no one dared.

Bhai Jaita hurriedly but safely and respectfully picking the sacred head from the site.

That evening, Bhai Lakhi Shah Vanjara, returning with nearly a hundred empty carts, was approached by Bhai Uda. Together they drove their carts to the execution site. The strong smell of lime from the carts forced the guards to step aside, allowing them to quietly lift the unattended body and place it on a cart.

Bhai Lkhi Shah Vanjara and Bhai Uda quietly lift the unattended body for placing on one of the hundred carts.

They carried it to Raisina village, hurriedly prepared a pyre inside Lakhi Shah’s home, and then set the entire house on fire so the cremation would remain hidden. 

 An artistic sketch showing the cremation of body in Lakhi Sah Banjara


The flames spread through the village, and when Mughal soldiers arrived, they suspected nothing. After they left, Lakhi ensured the pyre burned completely.


Present Day Gurdwara Rakab Ganj Sahib on the spot in Raisina village where Guru ji’s body was cremated.


Thus, through courage and devotion, Bhai Lakhi Shah and Bhai Uda safeguarded the Guru’s body from desecration, while Bhai Jaita Ji continued toward Anandpur Sahib with the Guru’s sacred head.