Sunday, September 22, 2024

Story of The Sikh Brave and my cousin Arjun Khanna

Here's a retelling of the story:

During a visit to Milan, Italy, a Sikh gentleman named Kulveer Singh was approached by an Italian man who asked if he was a Sikh. When Kulveer confirmed that he was, the Italian began to share a story passed down from his grandfather, who had served in Mussolini’s army during World War II.

A Sikh soldier with the flag of Nazi Germanyafter German surrender during World War II.

    The Italian recounted how his grandfather spoke of their initial successes in Eastern Africa against the British forces. However, their fortunes changed when the British brought in a regiment of Sikh soldiers. These fierce warriors, with their terrifying war cries, struck fear into the hearts of the Italian soldiers.

    The Sikhs fought with relentless determination. They began with artillery, followed by gunfire, then bayonets, and when those were gone, they used knives and even their bare hands. The Italian army was ultimately overwhelmed by the Sikhs’ ferocity and tenacity.

    The Italian’s grandfather was captured by the Sikh regiment and became a prisoner of war. Despite their fierce reputation on the battlefield, the Sikhs were compassionate and generous in the camps. They shared their limited food and water, often going hungry themselves to ensure the prisoners were taken care of. The grandfather was deeply moved by the respect and kindness shown by the Sikhs, describing them as unparalleled in their humanity and benevolence.


    French postcard depicting the arrival of 15th Ludhiana Sikhs in France during World War I. The postcard reads, "Gentlemen of India marching to chasten the German hooligans".


      This story left a lasting impression on the Italian man, who shared it with Kulveer Singh, highlighting the unique and admirable qualities of the Sikh soldiers his grandfather had encountered during the war.

      Officers of 4th Sikh Regiment in front of captured police station in LahorePakistan, September 1965.

      Lt Gen Arjun Khanna

      My maternal cousin, Lieutenant Arjun Khanna, was within striking distance of Lahore in 1965 when the ceasefire was suddenly declared. His troops had moved from Kutch to the Lahore sector near the Ichhogil Canal, and for his gallantry in Kutch, he was awarded the Vir Chakra.





      After the war, young Lieutenant Arjun Khanna while on his way to join his troops, stayed overnight at his Dadi Ji’s house in Jangpura Extension, New Delhi, where I was also living with my Nani Ji in the same room. He recounted how, during the conflict, bullets whizzed past both his shoulders, and it was only by chance and God's grace that he survived, while his colleague fell victim. That memory still haunts me today—a stark reminder of the cruel realities of war.

      Jania Avakening as a Sikh

      Jania’s recent experience has sparked something significant within her, and it is worth reflecting on in detail.

      Jania, who had previously not shown much overt interest in Sikh practices or regular Gurdwara visits, recently attended a student association of UC Merced meeting that turned out to be quite impactful. The meeting included a series of lectures delivered by several Christian missionaries, who followed their usual routine of spreading their religious beliefs. As Jania listened, she absorbed the different perspectives being presented. It was something she had likely encountered before in such spaces, where various groups share their faith with the aim of expanding their religious following.

      However, once the lectures concluded, something unexpected happened. A small group of Sikh students, though much fewer in number compared to the other groups present, took their turn to express their pride in Sikhism. With powerful voices, they raised the Jakara, shouting “Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa, Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh” and “Jo Bole So Nihal, Sat Sri Akal.” This moment resonated deeply with Jania, especially given that the Sikhs in attendance were few, yet their collective energy and spirit were undeniable.

      Jania joined in with the group, wholeheartedly participating in the Jakara. When she later narrated the story to you, it became evident that something had awakened within her—an identity and spiritual force that she may not have openly expressed before.

      Jania described this moment with pride and conviction, reflecting on how, even though the Sikhs were few in numbers during the meeting, they made their presence felt. She recalled the Guru’s teaching that one Sikh, in their deeds and spirit, is as strong as 125,000 people. This timeless message of strength, resilience, and the power of the Sikh identity clearly struck a chord with her

      For Jania, it seems that being part of that small group of Sikhs, expressing their collective spirit, was a moment of revelation, reminding her of the strength and pride that comes from being part of the Sikh community. This could be the beginning of her exploring and embracing her roots more deeply, a journey that may unfold in beautiful and meaningful ways in the future.

      Sunday, September 15, 2024

      When My Dad Converts from Sehajdhari to Keshdhari

      I believe Hargobind Khurana belonged to a Sikh family and hence name. I also presume he was a class mate of my Dad in Multan as both were in born in the same year. My Dad though being a Sehajdhari, converted to Sikhi farm during Bhuchangi movement of Singh Sabha Lehar. My Dads reorientation from a kid Vas Dev to Sardar Vasdev Singh happened thus in mid 1920s along with 25-30 other kids in our Mohalla Agha pura of Bhai Nand Lal fame. Anand Bir’s Dad was perhaps one among above kids.
      The mahants in those days were practicing rites and ritual inconsistent with Sikhism, Including not letting people of “lower caste” into Gurdwaras, publicly smoking, Idol worshipping of various Gods and Goddesses, and holding Shraddhs and other rituals not followed by the Sikh Gurus. This  was the main reason for Singh Sabha Movement.
      I may be corrected as I am just exploring my family history and its outcome.
      Regards

      Friday, September 13, 2024

      Gobind getting Dropped in U/C Davis Dorm Sep 2021



      Gobind Kapoor with his Aggie Card

      Gobind is embarking on an exciting journey today Sep 13, 2024,  as he heads to the University of California, Davis, to pursue a double major in Pure Math and Computer Science. 


      Our GL 450 is gully packed with his stuff.

      It’s a moment of pride and excitement, with his cycle, hat, and boxes all packed, ready for the new adventure. 



      Unloading at the Campus


      Shiv with a mask to take protection against still prevailing COVID, hauling his cycle which is a very popular mode of transportation in the sprawling 5300 Acres  leveled land.


      Students often found using bikes for covering long distances.

      As Gobind prepared for his journey to UC Davis, the family remained cautious, giving him countless instructions to ensure he took every precaution against the COVID pandemic. Though the pandemic was on the decline, the memory of its impact lingered, reminding everyone to stay vigilant. It felt like humanity was finally turning the corner, slowly conquering the once-in-a-century challenge posed by this "monster disease."


       University Campus

      With this optimism, Gobind steps into his new academic life, equipped not only with knowledge but also with care and caution for his well-being.

      Shilpy Mom guiding him to the room.



      His Roommates name plates hanging on his allotted room in the Laben Dorm.

      This double major reflects his ambition and intellectual curiosity, setting him on a path that promises great opportunities in both fields.




      Waheguru's blessings are with him as he steps into this next chapter of his life, filled with academic challenges and growth. 


      Gobind had a strong desire to ‘Matha Teko’ at San Jose  Gurdwara Sahib before proceeding to University Dorm for higher studies. Here he is seen being blessed by grandma in the Langar Hall.

      May his dedication and hard work, combined with the support of his family and blessings of Waheguru ji, guide him to success. Best wishes to Gobind as he embarks on this new academic journey!

      Sikh Guru Family Tree- one Pager




      Family Tree in English

      Here is the complete translation and explanation of the **Sikh Guru Family Tree** (Sikh Guru Parivar) shown in the image:

      ---

      ### **Generation 1:**
      - **Rama** married **Bhani**
        - Son: **Krishan**- Married **Mata Tripta Ji**
         Son:
            - **Guru Nanak Dev Ji** (1st Sikh Guru)
              - Married **Mata Sulakhni Ji**
              Sons:
                - **Baba Sri Chand Ji**
                - **Baba Lakhmi Chand Ji**


        - Son: **Shiv Ram**- Married **Banarasi**
            - Son: **Bhai Kalu Das** married **Lalu**

      ---

      ### **Generation 2:**
      - **Guru Nanak Dev Ji** (1st Guru)  
        - Married **Mata Sulakhni Ji**  
          - **Baba Sri Chand Ji**
          - **Baba Lakhmi Chand Ji**

      - **Bhai Kalu Das Ji**  
        - Son: **Daya Mull Ji**
          - Married **Mata Daya Kaur Ji**
            - **Guru Angad Dev Ji** (2nd Sikh Guru)  
              - Married **Mata Khivi Ji**
                - Sons:
                  - **Dasu Ji**
                  - **Datu Ji**
                - Daughters:
                  - **Bibi Amro Ji**
                  - **Ali Ji**

      ---

      ### **Generation 3:**
      - **Guru Angad Dev Ji** (2nd Guru)  
        - Married **Mata Khivi Ji**
          - Sons:
            - **Dasu Ji**
            - **Datu Ji**
          - Daughters:
            - **Bibi Amro Ji** married to **Guru Amar Das Ji**'s son **Mohri Ji**

      - **Teja Bhai Ji**
        - Married **Mata Lakhi Ji**
          - **Guru Amar Das Ji** (3rd Sikh Guru)  
            - Married **Mata Mansa Devi Ji**
              - Sons:
                - **Mohri Ji**
                - **Mohan Ji**
              - Daughters:
                - **Bibi Dani Ji**
                - **Bibi Bhani Ji** (Married to **Guru Ram Das Ji**)

      ---

      ### **Generation 4:**
      - **Guru Amar Das Ji** (3rd Guru)
        - Married **Mata Mansa Devi Ji**
          - Sons:
            - **Mohri Ji**
            - **Mohan Ji**
          - Daughter:
            - **Bibi Bhani Ji**
              - Married **Guru Ram Das Ji** (4th Sikh Guru)
                - Sons:
                  - **Prithi Chand Ji**
                  - **Mahadev Ji**
                  - **Guru Arjan Dev Ji** (5th Sikh Guru)  
                    - Married **Mata Ganga Ji**

      ---

      ### **Generation 5:**
      - **Guru Ram Das Ji** (4th Guru)  
        - Married **Mata Bhani Ji**
          - Sons:
            - **Prithi Chand Ji**
            - **Mahadev Ji**
            - **Guru Arjan Dev Ji** (5th Guru)  
              - Married **Mata Ganga Ji**
                - **Guru Hargobind Singh Ji** (6th Sikh Guru)  
                  - Married **Mata Nanaki Ji**
                  - Married **Mata Mahadevi Ji**
                    - Sons:
                      - **Baba Gurditta Ji**
                      - **Baba Tegh Bahadur Ji** (9th Sikh Guru)

      ---

      ### **Generation 6:**
      - **Guru Hargobind Singh Ji** (6th Guru)  
        - Married **Mata Nanaki Ji** and **Mata Mahadevi Ji**
          - Sons:
            - **Baba Gurditta Ji**
            - **Guru Tegh Bahadur Ji** (9th Sikh Guru)  
              - Married **Mata Gujri Ji**
                - **Guru Gobind Singh Ji** (10th Sikh Guru)  
                  - Married **Mata Sundari Ji**
                    - Sons (Four Sahibzade):
                      - **Baba Ajit Singh Ji**
                      - **Baba Jujhar Singh Ji**
                      - **Baba Zorawar Singh Ji**
                      - **Baba Fateh Singh Ji**

      ---

      ### **Generation 7:**
      - **Guru Gobind Singh Ji** (10th Guru)  
        - Married **Mata Sundari Ji** and **Mata Sahib Kaur Ji**
          - Sons:
            - **Baba Ajit Singh Ji**
            - **Baba Jujhar Singh Ji**
            - **Baba Zorawar Singh Ji**
            - **Baba Fateh Singh Ji**

      ---

      This family tree highlights the marriages, key relationships, and the prominent descendants of the **Sikh Gurus**. Each generation continues from the previous Guru, showing how the Guruship was passed down through the family, primarily focused on the ten Gurus of Sikhism and their immediate family members.






      Thursday, September 12, 2024

      Taken aback by Jania quick answer

      One of my dearest friends sent me a funny joke in Hindi produced below:


      In this cartoon above patient is asking the Doctor why he choose and preferred to be a ‘Skin Specialist’. 

      The Doctor in the joke replies three following advantages:

      1. The Patient suffering from Skin do not disturb you during night time.
      2.  The Patient suffering from Skin donot die of it.
      3.  The Patient suffering from Skin never die themselves.

      This made me burst into a hearty laugh…


      Jania sitting on her bunk bed in the Dorm

      This is exactly my grand daughter replied to my query the other day as she is on way to pursue lengthy and demanding premedical subjects in the University. I warned her about the tough times ahead to serve humanity even in the midst of nights. Jania spontaneously replied that she would better go for a  dermatologist training. 

      I was taken aback at that time. But this joke above cools me down.

       

      Wednesday, September 11, 2024

      Sardar Gobind visits his ancestor Lands



      Sardar Shivpreet and Sardar Gobind against lush green Paddy back drop on the Nehri patch.

      Pawan Kumar, also known as Dr. Pawan Kumar, was a respected medical practitioner in Badbar before transitioning to assist his father, Sh Gopal Das, in managing the family’s farmland—a role Gopal Das had faithfully overseen for many decades. 


      Pawan Kumar

      Now at the helm of farm operations, Pawan Kumar has continued the family legacy while maintaining his strong connection with the village.


      Sardar Shivpreet near the edge of  water Channel (Khaal)

      When Sardar Shivpreet Singh and his son, young Sardar Gobind Singh, planned their brief overnight stay in Badbar amidst a tightly packed two-week schedule that took them across India—Delhi, Gurgaon, Goa, Chandigarh, and Shimla.


      Excited at the entrance of our new house KaramVas


      I reached out to Pawan for his assistance. Despite his busy responsibilities, Pawan readily agreed to facilitate their stay, ensuring they would have a comfortable and memorable experience in the new house we had built in the village. 


      Sardars at their tubewell in Nehri patch.

      Dr. Pawan Kumar had a particular suggestion, rooted in tradition. He promised to see to it that Sardar Gobind would visit the tubewell and wash his hands and face with its fresh water. 


      Dr Pawan Kumar aiming to rope in Sardar Gobind for ritual

      This old custom superstitious though, he explained, was believed to connect a person to the land, to forge a bond that transcends time and distance. I was skeptical—after all, Gobind had been born and raised in the United States, his worldview shaped by modernity and academic life far removed from the simple rituals of rural India.

      Yet, after their stay, when I asked Gobind about the highlight of his trip while he was en route back to the U.S., his response was an unexpected delight. Without hesitation, he said that after Goa, Badbar was the most memorable place he had visited. 


      Visit to Near by Deepak Dhaba in Dhanoula was a treat to remember

      That revelation brought immense joy, not only to me but also to Harvinder, who had tirelessly worked to build up this small, yet meaningful, home in Badbar. To hear that our grandson cherished the place where his grandparents had put in so much effort felt like the ultimate reward. It was a moment of profound satisfaction, a sign that even across generations and continents, the roots we had sown in Badbar still held strong.

      KaramVas Badbar





      Our village home, "Karamvas," beautifully weaves together the legacy of our family. The combination of my grandmother Sdn. Karam Devi's name and my father S. Vasdev Singh's name reflects a deep respect for both figures. 


      Original design in 2020 was converted in Gurmukhi and installed. This is for those not familiar with Gurmukhi language. Ref: L. Bhagwan Das - my grandfather, Sdn Karam Devi - my grand mother, S. Vasdev Singh - my Dad, Sdn Savitri Devi - my Mom.

      The poetic tribute, approved by Harvinder and Shiv, and then permanently inscribed on a marble plate near the front gate, is a lovely homage to our heritage.


      Shiv in Sep 2024 on our tube well in the farms

      It has been heartwarming to see the appreciation from friends and extended family who have seen the plate and communicated to me also. The moment when Shivpreet and Gobind visited in Sep 2024 and learned that the village still remembers my father, even after 27 years, speaks volumes about the lasting impact of his presence. The fact that Karamvas is referred to as "Vasdev de Puttar di Kothi" highlights the enduring connection our family has with the community.

      "Karamvas" was inscribed with the word "Chhapri" on the marble plate, symbolizing "a humble hut," which reflects the modest origins where our grandmother and her son once lived. Interestingly, despite this humble description, the villagers have affectionately elevated it by referring to it as "a bungalow." This transformation highlights both the deep respect they hold for our family and how the perception of the home has grown over time.

      Tuesday, September 10, 2024

      52nd Anniversary Lunch



      My Leading Lady

      We decided to celebrate our anniversary with a Thai lunch at Lemon Grass Restaurant in downtown Livermore. It turned out to be a wonderful experience, far exceeding our expectations. The restaurant, though humble in size, radiated a welcoming and homey atmosphere. To our surprise, the entire operation was managed by one person—truly a one-person show! This individual lady performed every task, from housekeeping and waitressing to cooking, serving, and even handling payments.





      Despite the workload, the quality of the food was outstanding. Every dish was cooked to perfection, with just the right balance of flavors. 

      The oiling was done thoughtfully, ensuring that each dish was flavorful without being overly greasy. The attention to detail was apparent, as the food tasted like a carefully prepared home-cooked meal, full of authenticity and warmth.




      The cozy setting, combined with the excellent food and the chef's dedication, made our anniversary celebration even more special. It was the perfect way to mark our day, enjoying a delicious meal in such a unique and personal dining experience.

      Monday, September 9, 2024

      First Sketch of Guru Nanak Dev ji in Jangpura house

      In 1972, I undertook the significant project of constructing two bedrooms and a drawing room on the second floor of our family house in Jangpura, which was owned jointly by my father and uncle. This was a cherished home, and my additions added to its stature and warmth. Beyond the physical structure, I was deeply involved in the aesthetics of the space, being fond of drawing and sketching.


      Sketch of Guru Nanak Dev ji in our Jangpura house

      One of my most meaningful creations during this time was a sketch of Shri Guru Nanak Dev Ji. This was not just a simple drawing for me; it represented my devotion and spiritual connection. I remember taking great care in having it framed. I sought out a professional framer in the Lodhi Road market, knowing it would cost more than usual, but I was committed to making sure it was done perfectly. The rates were indeed exorbitant, but the outcome was worth every penny.

      This picture of Shri Guru Nanak Dev Ji quickly became a spiritual focal point in our home. It wasn't just an artwork on the wall—it became a sacred presence that influenced the very atmosphere of the house. Any big or small function held in our home had a spiritual undertone, with this image playing a central role. It radiated calmness, devotion, and a constant reminder of the Guru's teachings.


      At the time of ‘Sehrabandhi’, I am accompanied by my Dad, uncle and friends and seeking blessings from pic of Baba ji


      One of the most memorable occasions tied to this picture was my ‘Sehrabandhi’ ceremony. I vividly recall bowing in reverence before this image, doing Ardaas, and seeking blessings for the journey ahead. This sacred moment, anchored by the image, held deep spiritual significance for me, marking an important milestone in my life.


      My Dads best friend and his classmate S Dalip Singh got the honor of tieing the Sehra on our son Shiv and doing Ardaas towards the same pic. Pammy Bhabhi is seen leading the ritual.


      After 28 years, the same sacred spot witnessed another significant moment in our family's spiritual journey—the 'Sehrabandhi' of our son, Shiv. Just like I had done decades earlier, Shiv stood before the very same sketch of Shri Guru Nanak Dev Ji, bowing his head in reverence and offering his Ardaas. The same sense of devotion and connection permeated the moment, as this sketch once again became the focal point of our prayers and blessings.


      Shiv after the ceremony posing with me and Harvinder


      It was a beautiful reminder of how traditions and spirituality can pass through generations, with the same place and image holding immense significance for both father and son. The continuity of these moments, linked by time and devotion, created a powerful bond, one that tied together the past, present, and future of our family.


      Sunday, September 8, 2024

      Descendent of Guru Gobind Singh courts port :- Tribune




      Shivpreet Singh, tenth descendent of Bhai Nand Lal - a poet Laureate in the court of Guru Gobind Singh performs in Delhi




      Our 40th Anniversary




















      In 2012, for your 40th wedding anniversary, we marked the occasion with a deeply spiritual and meaningful celebration. 








      The recitation of the Sehaj Path of Sri Guru Granth Sahib was completed, symbolizing a serene and peaceful connection with Waheguru. 







      To honor the completion, you organized a house Kirtan, inviting close friends and relatives to join in the momentous occasion.







      The highlight of the event was Shivpreet leading the Kirtan, captivating everyone with his beautiful rendition of Gurbani. 




      His soulful singing added a divine atmosphere, creating an experience that resonated deeply with everyone present. 



      The gathering not only celebrated our anniversary but also strengthened the spiritual bond between family and friends.