Saturday, December 30, 2023

58 years of Lifelong Friendship - VK Khanna

A Timeless Bond and Cherished Memories of 58 Years of Unbreakable Friendship: 



VK Khanna 1942-2023

My beloved friend VK Khanna's life was a testament to resilience and steadfastness, marked by extraordinary events and significant achievements. Being a native of Shimla he was an Alum of DAV High School, Lakkad Bazar Shimla. He joined Cenetral Water and Power Commission (Power Wing) in his home town in Shimla. He was forced to move to Delhi as the entire office of Central Water and Power Commission consisting of both Water and Power wings moved to Bikaner House in New Delhi. He started living with his Bhua in Lodhi Road New Delhi.


The Trinity inside the Elephanta Caves, Bombay 1986

Where I met:

I first met VK on a wintry day in 1965 in his office on Curzon Road barracks. I was supposed to take over from him on my first job. A very smart well dressed in dark English suit welcomed and gave me a very warm and tight hug before starting to give me brief on the job status.


PM & VK Always seen together

He then took me by walk to neighboring Baroda House Govt canteen and ordered a half set of hot tea.  It’s where our long and strong friendship started till he departed last week. Our friendship lasted for more than 58 years, but I have yet to recall a day when we fought with each other. Though we differed on many fronts but we still walked together. 

Virtual Steel Sentinel for me:

Our life saw many ups and turns when we passed through 1984 riots time. It was difficult for a turban man like me to be safe on the roads. VK Khanna's unwavering commitment to my safety during the tumultuous times speaks volumes about his exceptional character. He will take a public transport to reach my home and we will then reach office together travelling on my scooter while VK sitting on the pillion. We used to return the same way in the evening. His steadfastness in shielding me from the chaotic and unpredictable crowds amid such unrest is a testament to his selflessness and unwavering friendship.


 On our Trip to Bombay and Goa in 1986 -a rare pic of three friends Families of Me, VK and Ramesh sitting on famous Juhu Beach, Bombay.


VK, Vinai, Rajiv and Vikas on Vasco Da Gamma Beach, Goa in 1986


Enjoying the Arabian Sea in 1986


Amidst the turmoil and danger, his consistent presence by my side, providing a protective shield, showcases the depth of his loyalty and genuine concern for my well-being. His actions, risking his own safety to ensure mine, reflect the true essence of an exceptional friend and guardian during harrowing times.

Trial Court Case:

VK Khanna's dedication was also evident in his unwavering commitment during a two-decade-long trial court case, where he stood by my uncle's side enduring the hardship with remarkable patience and loyalty. This was all because I made a foolish mistake of unnecessarily involving him. 

Clandestine Exchange:

His decision to forego underhand dealings while vacating a rented house, returning the keys to the landlord without any clandestine exchange, highlighted his unwavering integrity amidst prevailing market practices.

Life Achievements:


Three friends PM, Ramesh and VK on the wedding of my Nephew in Delhi Nov 28, 1998

Moreover, his pinnacle achievement of constructing a five-story house on a modest 200-square-yard plot and many other properties in a bustling metropolis like Delhi reflects his tenacity and hard work. Starting from the servant quarters of Lodi Road officers flats arranged by his Bhua, he ascended to the pinnacle of success through sheer dedication and honest toil in his government job.

In May 2023, Shimla was perhaps his final prayers together at Jakhu Temple with his beautiful wife and our Bhabhi Vinai.

VK Khanna's legacy extends beyond material achievements. His principles, diligence, and unwavering honesty remain an indelible mark, impacting not only my life but also the lives of those fortunate enough to have known him.

"VK Khanna: Vibrant Memories on the Ridge, Shimla - May 2023". Vinai Bhabhi following the foot steps of VK like She had done all her life.

Unfulfilled Hopes: My Regret in the Journey 

In the midst of our shared journey, a moment of regret lingers. Despite securing approval from the US government, a chapter remained unfinished—I couldn't facilitate the migration of VK Khanna's second son, Vikas, to the USA.

The vision of granting Vikas access to a new horizon, brimming with possibilities, was thwarted by circumstances beyond our control. Despite earnest efforts and official endorsement, the bureaucratic challenges at the Embassy stood as an insurmountable barrier.

Vikas has instead triumphed and found success in the UK beyond expectations.

Condolences:

Sending heartfelt prayers and wishes for strength to Bhabhi Vinai, their sons Rajiv & Vikas, and their entire families. May Waheguru ji grant them the resilience and fortitude needed during this challenging time of loss. May they find solace in cherished memories and the enduring legacy of VK Khanna's remarkable life and unwavering love. My heartfelt condolences.8


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