Friday, July 27, 2012
Thursday, July 26, 2012
Sikh Wedding- Anand Karaj in Hindi, Punjabi and it's meaning in English
Anand Karaj
The families and friends of both the bride and groom gather in the Gurdwara, or a wedding hall, for the 'Anand Karaj' a Sikh marriage ceremony. Wedding parties and guests assemble together in the presence of the Guru Granth Sahib. Hymns are sung as men and boys sit on one side of a central isle, and the woman and girls on the other. Every one sits on the floor reverently with legs crossed and folded.
The bride and groom bow before the Guru Granth Sahib, and then sit side by side at the front of the hall. The couple and their parents stand up to signify that they have given their consent for the wedding to take place. Every one else remains seated while a Sikh offers Ardas, a prayer for the success of the marriage.
The musicians, who are called ragis, sit on a lower stage and sing the hymn, "Keeta Loree-ai Kaam", to seek God's blessing and to convey a message that a successful marital union is achieved through grace.
Union of Two Souls
The husband is to love and respect his wife, encourage her with kind consideration, recognize her individuality, regard her as his equal, offering guidance and support.
The wife is to show her love and respect with loyalty, support her husband's objectives willingly, harmonize with him, and share in happiness and sorrow, prosperity or adversity.
The couple are to ally themselves with each other in an endeavor to achieve a harmonious union, intellectually, emotionally, physically, materially and spiritually.
The Bride and groom, affirm the acceptance of their marital obligations, and bow together before the Guru Granth. The bride sits to the left of the groom directly in front of the Guru Granth.
The bride's father (or one acting in his stead) takes the left end of the palla and arranges it over the bride's shoulder and gives her the left end to hold.
Four Laavan
The word by word hymns in Gurmukhi, Hindi, Roman and their meaning in English are given below for easy understanding of the Anand Karaj:
ਸੂਹੀ ਮਹਲਾ ੪ ॥सूही महला ४ ॥Sūhī mėhlā 4.Soohee, Fourth Mehl:
First Lavan
ਹਰਿ ਪਹਿਲੜੀ ਲਾਵ ਪਰਵਿਰਤੀ ਕਰਮ ਦ੍ਰਿੜਾਇਆ ਬਲਿ ਰਾਮ ਜੀਉ ॥हरि पहिलड़ी लाव परविरती करम द्रिड़ाइआ बलि राम जीउ ॥Har pahilaṛī lāv parvirṯī karam driṛ▫ā▫i▫ā bal rām jī▫o.In the first round of the marriage ceremony, the Lord sets out His Instructions for performing the daily duties of married life.
ਬਾਣੀ ਬ੍ਰਹਮਾ ਵੇਦੁ ਧਰਮੁ ਦ੍ਰਿੜਹੁ ਪਾਪ ਤਜਾਇਆ ਬਲਿ ਰਾਮ ਜੀਉ ॥बाणी ब्रहमा वेदु धरमु द्रिड़हु पाप तजाइआ बलि राम जीउ ॥Baṇī barahmā veḏ ḏẖaram ḏariṛĥu pāp ṯajā▫i▫ā bal rām jī▫o.Instead of the hymns of the Vedas to Brahma, embrace the righteous conduct of Dharma, and renounce sinful actions.
ਧਰਮੁ ਦ੍ਰਿੜਹੁ ਹਰਿ ਨਾਮੁ ਧਿਆਵਹੁ ਸਿਮ੍ਰਿਤਿ ਨਾਮੁ ਦ੍ਰਿੜਾਇਆ ॥धरमु द्रिड़हु हरि नामु धिआवहु सिम्रिति नामु द्रिड़ाइआ ॥Ḏẖaram ḏariṛĥu har nām ḏẖi▫āvahu simriṯ nām driṛ▫ā▫i▫ā.Meditate on the Lord's Name; embrace and enshrine the contemplative remembrance of the Naam.
ਸਤਿਗੁਰੁ ਗੁਰੁ ਪੂਰਾ ਆਰਾਧਹੁ ਸਭਿ ਕਿਲਵਿਖ ਪਾਪ ਗਵਾਇਆ ॥सतिगुरु गुरु पूरा आराधहु सभि किलविख पाप गवाइआ ॥Saṯgur gur pūrā ārāḏẖahu sabẖ kilvikẖ pāp gavā▫i▫ā.Worship and adore the Guru, the Perfect True Guru, and all your sins shall be dispelled.
ਸਹਜ ਅਨੰਦੁ ਹੋਆ ਵਡਭਾਗੀ ਮਨਿ ਹਰਿ ਹਰਿ ਮੀਠਾ ਲਾਇਆ ॥सहज अनंदु होआ वडभागी मनि हरि हरि मीठा लाइआ ॥Sahj anand ho▫ā vadbẖāgī man har har mīṯẖā lā▫i▫ā.By great good fortune, celestial bliss is attained, and the Lord, Har, Har, seems sweet to the mind.
ਜਨੁ ਕਹੈ ਨਾਨਕੁ ਲਾਵ ਪਹਿਲੀ ਆਰੰਭੁ ਕਾਜੁ ਰਚਾਇਆ ॥੧॥जनु कहै नानकु लाव पहिली आर्मभु काजु रचाइआ ॥१॥Jan kahai Nānak lāv pahilī ārambẖ kāj racẖā▫i▫ā. ||1||Servant Nanak proclaims that, in this, the first round of the marriage ceremony, the marriage ceremony has begun. ||1||
Second Laavan
ਹਰਿ ਦੂਜੜੀ ਲਾਵ ਸਤਿਗੁਰੁ ਪੁਰਖੁ ਮਿਲਾਇਆ ਬਲਿ ਰਾਮ ਜੀਉ ॥हरि दूजड़ी लाव सतिगुरु पुरखु मिलाइआ बलि राम जीउ ॥Har ḏūjṛī lāv saṯgur purakẖ milā▫i▫ā bal rām jī▫o.In the second round of the marriage ceremony, the Lord leads you to meet the True Guru, the Primal Being.
ਨਿਰਭਉ ਭੈ ਮਨੁ ਹੋਇ ਹਉਮੈ ਮੈਲੁ ਗਵਾਇਆ ਬਲਿ ਰਾਮ ਜੀਉ ॥निरभउ भै मनु होइ हउमै मैलु गवाइआ बलि राम जीउ ॥Nirbẖa▫o bẖai man ho▫e ha▫umai mail gavā▫i▫ā bal rām jī▫o.With the Fear of God, the Fearless Lord in the mind, the filth of egotism is eradicated.
ਨਿਰਮਲੁ ਭਉ ਪਾਇਆ ਹਰਿ ਗੁਣ ਗਾਇਆ ਹਰਿ ਵੇਖੈ ਰਾਮੁ ਹਦੂਰੇ ॥निरमलु भउ पाइआ हरि गुण गाइआ हरि वेखै रामु हदूरे ॥Nirmal bẖa▫o pā▫i▫ā har guṇ gā▫i▫ā har vekẖai rām haḏūre.In the Fear of God, the Immaculate Lord, sing the Glorious Praises of the Lord, and behold the Lord's Presence before you.
ਹਰਿ ਆਤਮ ਰਾਮੁ ਪਸਾਰਿਆ ਸੁਆਮੀ ਸਰਬ ਰਹਿਆ ਭਰਪੂਰੇ ॥हरि आतम रामु पसारिआ सुआमी सरब रहिआ भरपूरे ॥Har āṯam rām pasāri▫ā su▫āmī sarab rahi▫ā bẖarpūre.The Lord, the Supreme Soul, is the Lord and Master of the Universe; He is pervading and permeating everywhere, fully filling all spaces.
ਅੰਤਰਿ ਬਾਹਰਿ ਹਰਿ ਪ੍ਰਭੁ ਏਕੋ ਮਿਲਿ ਹਰਿ ਜਨ ਮੰਗਲ ਗਾਏ ॥अंतरि बाहरि हरि प्रभु एको मिलि हरि जन मंगल गाए ॥Anṯar bāhar har parabẖ eko mil har jan mangal gā▫e.Deep within, and outside as well, there is only the One Lord God. Meeting together, the humble servants of the Lord sing the songs of joy.
ਜਨ ਨਾਨਕ ਦੂਜੀ ਲਾਵ ਚਲਾਈ ਅਨਹਦ ਸਬਦ ਵਜਾਏ ॥੨॥जन नानक दूजी लाव चलाई अनहद सबद वजाए ॥२॥Jan Nānak ḏūjī lāv cẖalā▫ī anhaḏ sabaḏ vajā▫e. ||2||Servant Nanak proclaims that, in this, the second round of the marriage ceremony, the unstruck sound current of the Shabad resounds. ||2||
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Third Laavan
ਹਰਿ ਤੀਜੜੀ ਲਾਵ ਮਨਿ ਚਾਉ ਭਇਆ ਬੈਰਾਗੀਆ ਬਲਿ ਰਾਮ ਜੀਉ ॥हरि तीजड़ी लाव मनि चाउ भइआ बैरागीआ बलि राम जीउ ॥Har ṯījṛī lāv man cẖā▫o bẖa▫i▫ā bairāgī▫ā bal rām jī▫o.In the third round of the marriage ceremony, the mind is filled with Divine Love.
ਸੰਤ ਜਨਾ ਹਰਿ ਮੇਲੁ ਹਰਿ ਪਾਇਆ ਵਡਭਾਗੀਆ ਬਲਿ ਰਾਮ ਜੀਉ ॥संत जना हरि मेलु हरि पाइआ वडभागीआ बलि राम जीउ ॥Sanṯ janā har mel har pā▫i▫ā vadbẖāgī▫ā bal rām jī▫o.Meeting with the humble Saints of the Lord, I have found the Lord, by great good fortune.
ਨਿਰਮਲੁ ਹਰਿ ਪਾਇਆ ਹਰਿ ਗੁਣ ਗਾਇਆ ਮੁਖਿ ਬੋਲੀ ਹਰਿ ਬਾਣੀ ॥निरमलु हरि पाइआ हरि गुण गाइआ मुखि बोली हरि बाणी ॥Nirmal har pā▫i▫ā har guṇ gā▫i▫ā mukẖ bolī har baṇī.I have found the Immaculate Lord, and I sing the Glorious Praises of the Lord. I speak the Word of the Lord's Bani.
ਸੰਤ ਜਨਾ ਵਡਭਾਗੀ ਪਾਇਆ ਹਰਿ ਕਥੀਐ ਅਕਥ ਕਹਾਣੀ ॥संत जना वडभागी पाइआ हरि कथीऐ अकथ कहाणी ॥Sanṯ janā vadbẖāgī pā▫i▫ā har kathī▫ai akath kahāṇī.By great good fortune, I have found the humble Saints, and I speak the Unspoken Speech of the Lord.
ਹਿਰਦੈ ਹਰਿ ਹਰਿ ਹਰਿ ਧੁਨਿ ਉਪਜੀ ਹਰਿ ਜਪੀਐ ਮਸਤਕਿ ਭਾਗੁ ਜੀਉ ॥हिरदै हरि हरि हरि धुनि उपजी हरि जपीऐ मसतकि भागु जीउ ॥Hirḏai har har har ḏẖun upjī har japī▫ai masṯak bẖāg jī▫o.The Name of the Lord, Har, Har, Har, vibrates and resounds within my heart; meditating on the Lord, I have realized the destiny inscribed upon my forehead.
ਜਨੁ ਨਾਨਕੁ ਬੋਲੇ ਤੀਜੀ ਲਾਵੈ ਹਰਿ ਉਪਜੈ ਮਨਿ ਬੈਰਾਗੁ ਜੀਉ ॥੩॥जनु नानकु बोले तीजी लावै हरि उपजै मनि बैरागु जीउ ॥३॥Jan Nānak bole ṯījī lāvai har upjai man bairāg jī▫o. ||3||Servant Nanak proclaims that, in this, the third round of the marriage ceremony, the mind is filled with Divine Love for the Lord. ||3||
Fourth Laavan
ਹਰਿ ਚਉਥੜੀ ਲਾਵ ਮਨਿ ਸਹਜੁ ਭਇਆ ਹਰਿ ਪਾਇਆ ਬਲਿ ਰਾਮ ਜੀਉ ॥हरि चउथड़ी लाव मनि सहजु भइआ हरि पाइआ बलि राम जीउ ॥Har cẖa▫uthaṛī lāv man sahj bẖa▫i▫ā har pā▫i▫ā bal rām jī▫o.In the fourth round of the marriage ceremony, my mind has become peaceful; I have found the Lord.
ਗੁਰਮੁਖਿ ਮਿਲਿਆ ਸੁਭਾਇ ਹਰਿ ਮਨਿ ਤਨਿ ਮੀਠਾ ਲਾਇਆ ਬਲਿ ਰਾਮ ਜੀਉ ॥गुरमुखि मिलिआ सुभाइ हरि मनि तनि मीठा लाइआ बलि राम जीउ ॥Gurmukẖ mili▫ā subẖā▫e har man ṯan mīṯẖā lā▫i▫ā bal rām jī▫o.As Gurmukh, I have met Him, with intuitive ease; the Lord seems so sweet to my mind and body.
ਹਰਿ ਮੀਠਾ ਲਾਇਆ ਮੇਰੇ ਪ੍ਰਭ ਭਾਇਆ ਅਨਦਿਨੁ ਹਰਿ ਲਿਵ ਲਾਈ ॥हरि मीठा लाइआ मेरे प्रभ भाइआ अनदिनु हरि लिव लाई ॥Har mīṯẖā lā▫i▫ā mere parabẖ bẖā▫i▫ā an▫ḏin har liv lā▫ī.The Lord seems so sweet; I am pleasing to my God. Night and day, I lovingly focus my consciousness on the Lord.
ਮਨ ਚਿੰਦਿਆ ਫਲੁ ਪਾਇਆ ਸੁਆਮੀ ਹਰਿ ਨਾਮਿ ਵਜੀ ਵਾਧਾਈ ॥मन चिंदिआ फलु पाइआ सुआमी हरि नामि वजी वाधाई ॥Man cẖinḏi▫ā fal pā▫i▫ā su▫āmī har nām vajī vāḏẖā▫ī.I have obtained my Lord and Master, the fruit of my mind's desires. The Lord's Name resounds and resonates.
ਹਰਿ ਪ੍ਰਭਿ ਠਾਕੁਰਿ ਕਾਜੁ ਰਚਾਇਆ ਧਨ ਹਿਰਦੈ ਨਾਮਿ ਵਿਗਾਸੀ ॥हरि प्रभि ठाकुरि काजु रचाइआ धन हिरदै नामि विगासी ॥Har parabẖ ṯẖākur kāj racẖā▫i▫ā ḏẖan hirḏai nām vigāsī.The Lord God, my Lord and Master, blends with His bride, and her heart blossoms forth in the Naam.
ਜਨੁ ਨਾਨਕੁ ਬੋਲੇ ਚਉਥੀ ਲਾਵੈ ਹਰਿ ਪਾਇਆ ਪ੍ਰਭੁ ਅਵਿਨਾਸੀ ॥੪॥੨॥जनु नानकु बोले चउथी लावै हरि पाइआ प्रभु अविनासी ॥४॥२॥Jan Nānak bole cẖa▫uthī lāvai har pā▫i▫ā parabẖ avināsī. ||4||2||Servant Nanak proclaims that, in this, the fourth round of the marriage ceremony, we have found the Eternal Lord God. ||4||2||
The entire congregation sings "Anand Sahib", the "Song of Bliss". The hymn emphasizes the fusing of two souls into one as they merge with the divine.
Conclusion
The ragis sing two hymns to complete the ceremony:
"Veeahu Hoa Mere Babula" - celebrates the marriage of the couple and their union with God.
"Pooree Asa Jee Mansaa Mere Raam" - describes the happiness at having found the perfect partner.
Every one stands for the final prayer. After it has been said, everyone bows, and resumes sitting.
A Sikh reads a random verse called a hukam which concludes the ceremony. Lastly, a ragi serves everyone a handful of prashad, a sacred sweet blessed during the prayer.
The married couple and their families, express thanks to all present for taking part in the celebration. The wedding party guests congratulate the married couple. Everyone gathers in the langar hall to eat. Parents distribute boxed confections such as ladoo to guests.
In India, the Anand Marriage Act was promulgated during British times in 1909 by great efforts of Maharaja Ripudaman Singh of Nabha State who got it drafted by Bhai Kahn Singh Nabha, but was not adopted at the time of framing of the Constitution of Independent India. Now Anand Marriage Amendment Act 2012 has been adopted by the Government of India and Sikhs can now register their marriages.
Wednesday, July 18, 2012
Friday, July 13, 2012
Dara Singh and my connection
Dara Singh a legend born as Deedar Singh Randhawa in 1928 has passed away. He was such a household name so popular that every kid who was healthy, strong and good looking was called and even named after him. He attained highest levels in the fields of sports, entertainment, and politics. He was above all such a humble soul and true gentleman who will not tolerate even an iota of indecenncy himself nor allow any body else to misbehave in his presence. He was Indian Ideal of goodness through strength and a straightforward persona.
There was tremendous awe registered in the minds of people, who had his picture of King Kong lifted in his arms over his shoulders as 'The Signature Style of Dara Singh'. This move was famously known as 'The Indian Deathlock'. He had almost thrown King Kong out of the Arena. Whenever he was fighting in the ring, it was as if India was fighting China, England, America or any other foreign country. People used to throng the arenas like mountain of mad crowds waiting only for his victory. Such was the Charisma that he became bigger than wrestling itself.
Although the truth is, as we now know, that all professional wrestling all over the world is fixed as a sports entertainment. But being an ardent fan of Dara Singh, I feel devastated by his passing away. On the other hand I have sense of satisfaction and pleasure by the onslaught of emotion and affection evoked globally.
I am pleased to unravel a personal connection with Dara Singh. Harvinder as a toddler was very healthy, good looking and strong infant and hence all in her family started calling her Dara Singh and eventually nick named her Dari. Most of us even today affectionately address her as Dari.
My childhood superhero, Dara Singh! Rest In Peace.
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There was tremendous awe registered in the minds of people, who had his picture of King Kong lifted in his arms over his shoulders as 'The Signature Style of Dara Singh'. This move was famously known as 'The Indian Deathlock'. He had almost thrown King Kong out of the Arena. Whenever he was fighting in the ring, it was as if India was fighting China, England, America or any other foreign country. People used to throng the arenas like mountain of mad crowds waiting only for his victory. Such was the Charisma that he became bigger than wrestling itself.
Although the truth is, as we now know, that all professional wrestling all over the world is fixed as a sports entertainment. But being an ardent fan of Dara Singh, I feel devastated by his passing away. On the other hand I have sense of satisfaction and pleasure by the onslaught of emotion and affection evoked globally.
I am pleased to unravel a personal connection with Dara Singh. Harvinder as a toddler was very healthy, good looking and strong infant and hence all in her family started calling her Dara Singh and eventually nick named her Dari. Most of us even today affectionately address her as Dari.
My childhood superhero, Dara Singh! Rest In Peace.
I
Sunday, July 8, 2012
A treat to watch elderly dancing and having fun
It was a treat indeed to watch Dr TS Khanna and Dr Jogi Khanna, a couple with +50 Years of married life singing and dancing thus enjoying the victory over the arduous battlefield of their lives. Khannas kicked off the dancing by holding hands-in-hands and making timely maneuvers and swinging their bodies synchronously together to the Bollywood tunes of 1960-70-80s.
We were welcomed by their son-in-law at the door, a nice gesture which raised the stature of the party. It was an excellent get together of about 100 people to enjoy the music, drinks and ambience in mild climate of San Francisco Bay Area. The evening was well set with meticulously laid out tables and chairs in the back drop of meadows on the wooden decks of their big house in Alamo, CA. The whole yard was lit up with sprawled beautiful and decorative lights.
The roses of multiple colors from red to pink to white to light pink to yellow were at their blossom best. The yellow roses were crowning over all other colors. All the bushes, creepers and various magnificent variety of plants were well manicured and dressed up in the best presentable conditions.
Being new comers, we were very well doctrined by Khannas to gel in with the people already enjoying the party and made us comfortable. The daughter of the house was seen loaded with the responsibility of overall arrangements.
The live band played variety of film songs uninterrupted for four hours. Most of the guests enjoyed the songs and danced to some fast pop numbers. Dancing was spearheaded by Khanna couple, the hero and heroine of the night.
Above all the Khannas proved to be en excellent hosts.
We were welcomed by their son-in-law at the door, a nice gesture which raised the stature of the party. It was an excellent get together of about 100 people to enjoy the music, drinks and ambience in mild climate of San Francisco Bay Area. The evening was well set with meticulously laid out tables and chairs in the back drop of meadows on the wooden decks of their big house in Alamo, CA. The whole yard was lit up with sprawled beautiful and decorative lights.
The roses of multiple colors from red to pink to white to light pink to yellow were at their blossom best. The yellow roses were crowning over all other colors. All the bushes, creepers and various magnificent variety of plants were well manicured and dressed up in the best presentable conditions.
Being new comers, we were very well doctrined by Khannas to gel in with the people already enjoying the party and made us comfortable. The daughter of the house was seen loaded with the responsibility of overall arrangements.
The live band played variety of film songs uninterrupted for four hours. Most of the guests enjoyed the songs and danced to some fast pop numbers. Dancing was spearheaded by Khanna couple, the hero and heroine of the night.
Above all the Khannas proved to be en excellent hosts.
Saturday, July 7, 2012
Gurdwara Nanak Darbar Dubai
Gurdwara in Dubai is making waves. Shiv sent me a note on this. But my friend Balbir Singh Sahni sent me more details which I am producing below. Built at $20 million, the ultra-modern gurdwara is a rare piece of architectural design, a blend of modern and traditional building style, finalised after studying important Sikh shrines the world over, including Golden Temple.
Harvinder has already plans to break journey in Dubai on our next trip to India in late this year. So are ready Shilpy and Shiv who have their chicago buddies Vali and Heina located in Dubai. Come winter 2012, and we 'inshallah' will be having a gala time intercepted by spiritual time.
Visitors say that it is even more beautiful than the Golden Temple of Amritsar. The only Gurdwara of its kind in the modern world, some are even comparing Kandhari to erstwhile kings, who made such iconic monuments of importance during their rule. A beautiful fact in religious harmony, when he brings home historic significance that the foundation stone of the Golden Temple was laid by Muslim Saint Hazrat Mian Mir and land donated now by Sheikh Mohammed Bin Rashid Al Maktoum, the ruler of Dubai. Large part of the 65 million dirham spent on making it has been spared by Kandhari himself. Heavenly spirituality meets with earthly opulence. A spectacular combine made possible by the will of God, through his chosen man, Surinder Singh Kandhari.
It was a journey to the unknown when Mr. Kandhari, a well-respected businessman in Dubai, approached Dubai authorities with his, what is calls, "a dream project." Convincing the officials of the Ministry of Islamic Affair that there is nothing anti-Islamic about setting up a Gurdwara, was the most difficult job.
Mr. Kandhari, who is also the Captain of the prestigious Emirates Golf Club in Dubai, needed to bring all his convincing powers and knowledge about the region into full play - and finally he succeeded. "It was hard to explain the Ministry officials even the idea of sangat and langar. I had to translate excerpts from Guru Granth Saheb and read out to them. Sikhs don't worship idols like in Islam, and how the idea of equality was inherent in Sikhism. Once they were convinced that setting up a Gurdwara is not anti-Islamic, things quickly started falling in place.
His HIghness Sheikh Mohammed bin Rashid Al Makhtoum, Vice-President and Prime Minister of UAE, was very gracious to grant permission for building of the gurudwara. "The permission is one thing, look at gesture- he gave us 25400 square feet of land free for the community!"
From 24 carat gold canopies to exclusive Italian marble, the temple of worship is a masterpiece in architecture, aesthetics & grandeur, all in the name of God. The serenity as you enter is just the same as one would find in any other place of worship. But behind the faith lies six years of toil and treasure spending in what stands as an icon of Sikhism in the Middle East . Situated in Jebel Ali, a prominent location, measuring 100, 000 sq ft spread across four levels, it is visited by hundreds of devotees from across the globe.
The building contractor has guaranteed the structure for 100 years. It has high sped silent lifts. The kitchen is made & manned to five star standards. "I told the ruler that one can't surpass the Golden Temple but what we will have is the most modern Gurdwara in the world" said Kandhari, chairman of the Al Dobowi Group, and one of the most prominent NRI’s in the Middle East . The community box collections are already very high which pleases the management as they plan to spend it all in binding the Indian – Pakistan community closer. The next steps unveil opening of hospitals & schools for public good, as well as teaching native languages and religious strictures.
"JO BOLE SO NIHAL, SAT SRI AKAL".
Harvinder has already plans to break journey in Dubai on our next trip to India in late this year. So are ready Shilpy and Shiv who have their chicago buddies Vali and Heina located in Dubai. Come winter 2012, and we 'inshallah' will be having a gala time intercepted by spiritual time.
Visitors say that it is even more beautiful than the Golden Temple of Amritsar. The only Gurdwara of its kind in the modern world, some are even comparing Kandhari to erstwhile kings, who made such iconic monuments of importance during their rule. A beautiful fact in religious harmony, when he brings home historic significance that the foundation stone of the Golden Temple was laid by Muslim Saint Hazrat Mian Mir and land donated now by Sheikh Mohammed Bin Rashid Al Maktoum, the ruler of Dubai. Large part of the 65 million dirham spent on making it has been spared by Kandhari himself. Heavenly spirituality meets with earthly opulence. A spectacular combine made possible by the will of God, through his chosen man, Surinder Singh Kandhari.
It was a journey to the unknown when Mr. Kandhari, a well-respected businessman in Dubai, approached Dubai authorities with his, what is calls, "a dream project." Convincing the officials of the Ministry of Islamic Affair that there is nothing anti-Islamic about setting up a Gurdwara, was the most difficult job.
Mr. Kandhari, who is also the Captain of the prestigious Emirates Golf Club in Dubai, needed to bring all his convincing powers and knowledge about the region into full play - and finally he succeeded. "It was hard to explain the Ministry officials even the idea of sangat and langar. I had to translate excerpts from Guru Granth Saheb and read out to them. Sikhs don't worship idols like in Islam, and how the idea of equality was inherent in Sikhism. Once they were convinced that setting up a Gurdwara is not anti-Islamic, things quickly started falling in place.
His HIghness Sheikh Mohammed bin Rashid Al Makhtoum, Vice-President and Prime Minister of UAE, was very gracious to grant permission for building of the gurudwara. "The permission is one thing, look at gesture- he gave us 25400 square feet of land free for the community!"
From 24 carat gold canopies to exclusive Italian marble, the temple of worship is a masterpiece in architecture, aesthetics & grandeur, all in the name of God. The serenity as you enter is just the same as one would find in any other place of worship. But behind the faith lies six years of toil and treasure spending in what stands as an icon of Sikhism in the Middle East . Situated in Jebel Ali, a prominent location, measuring 100, 000 sq ft spread across four levels, it is visited by hundreds of devotees from across the globe.
The building contractor has guaranteed the structure for 100 years. It has high sped silent lifts. The kitchen is made & manned to five star standards. "I told the ruler that one can't surpass the Golden Temple but what we will have is the most modern Gurdwara in the world" said Kandhari, chairman of the Al Dobowi Group, and one of the most prominent NRI’s in the Middle East . The community box collections are already very high which pleases the management as they plan to spend it all in binding the Indian – Pakistan community closer. The next steps unveil opening of hospitals & schools for public good, as well as teaching native languages and religious strictures.
"JO BOLE SO NIHAL, SAT SRI AKAL".
Saturday, June 23, 2012
Alas this was today
Ten years back this day today we had a bumper Appricot crop, so delicious, sweet and full of fragrance.
About 35 lbs in one picking load on June 23, 2012.
About 35 lbs in one picking load on June 23, 2012.
Total crop was estimated to be about 200+ lbs
This year has Venn one of those year with lean crop.
Aliens Descends into my Bedroom on June 23, 2012
Aliens (Gobind and Jania) descend and capture my bed room all night and were found in sound sleep in the early morning, with no nightmares at all as an exception.
Friday, June 22, 2012
Saturday, June 16, 2012
Our Pet Tweety turns 10
Our pet Tweety, a yellow headed Amazon Parrot, is 10 years old today. Amazons are known for their exceptional vocal abilities, playfulness, and dexterity with their feet. They are very loyal, loving companions; having them is somewhat like having a two-year-old-human child in ability and temperament for 50-plus years. They have an average life span of +80 years.
Tweety has learnt to sing 'Happy Birthday' and sings along with when Shiv is doing music. He is happiest when 'Sa Re Ga Ma Pa' show is on the TV. He will sync instantly with the beats and music tunes of every song that is being played.
He is very fond of girls or ladies, as the door bell rings and he responds with a Hi, we are sure there is a lady at the entrance. As the guest comes in he will say "how are you doing?" he will never forget his gestures of saying Bye when the guest is leaving. Yes the guest has to be a female. The Veterinary expert has the reason to declare him a male.
He sometimes moves his neck round and round to follow a song and at that point, Tweety is at his best.
Tweety eats what we all eat. He will start making a peculiar sound when you sit on the dining chair. He would love to eat hot morsel well dipped in cooked veggies or grams. Try him a cold loaf, he will simply refuse to use his dexterous feet to grab it and will walk away with back to us. After two morsels, he will go and drink water and come back and ask for final third one to complete his meal.
He loves to have green chili and mango seed and all fruits.
He also scares strangers. I had a visitor from India using our guest room on the ground floor. During the mid of night, he felt the need of water to drink. As he came into the family room passing by his cage, Tweety suddenly surprised him with ferocious sound resulting him to retreat to his room. Next day in the morning, the guest gave the details of his angry behavior. I apologized for his unwanted activity, incidentally his cage was left unlocked inadvertently,
One day he skipped through an open door and flew high in to the Sky on a hot summer day. Harvinder while watering the plants, saw a very beautiful and colorful bird flying through our back yard but it took a while for her to realize that it was indeed our Tweety who was enjoying the freedom.
We were very scared as we see lots of hawks flying around here and usually they pounce upon the smaller birds and pets as prey. So all of us ran after him who had by then perched himself at the top most branch of a nearby street tree.
As Shilpy whistled around, he immediately responded with 'Aaja, Aaja' the gesture she had trained him. Now at least we were relieved that he had not flown away to a far distance. Shilpy finally could pursue him to get closer when she could catch him and finally brought him back to his abode. He almost took our hearts out.
We thoroughly enjoy his existence. We do not send him for baby sitting while we are traveling, a very nice and caring Sinha family in our neighborhood visits him to feed him.
Thanks, Tweety for being with our family.
Tweety has learnt to sing 'Happy Birthday' and sings along with when Shiv is doing music. He is happiest when 'Sa Re Ga Ma Pa' show is on the TV. He will sync instantly with the beats and music tunes of every song that is being played.
He is very fond of girls or ladies, as the door bell rings and he responds with a Hi, we are sure there is a lady at the entrance. As the guest comes in he will say "how are you doing?" he will never forget his gestures of saying Bye when the guest is leaving. Yes the guest has to be a female. The Veterinary expert has the reason to declare him a male.
He sometimes moves his neck round and round to follow a song and at that point, Tweety is at his best.
Tweety eats what we all eat. He will start making a peculiar sound when you sit on the dining chair. He would love to eat hot morsel well dipped in cooked veggies or grams. Try him a cold loaf, he will simply refuse to use his dexterous feet to grab it and will walk away with back to us. After two morsels, he will go and drink water and come back and ask for final third one to complete his meal.
He loves to have green chili and mango seed and all fruits.
He also scares strangers. I had a visitor from India using our guest room on the ground floor. During the mid of night, he felt the need of water to drink. As he came into the family room passing by his cage, Tweety suddenly surprised him with ferocious sound resulting him to retreat to his room. Next day in the morning, the guest gave the details of his angry behavior. I apologized for his unwanted activity, incidentally his cage was left unlocked inadvertently,
One day he skipped through an open door and flew high in to the Sky on a hot summer day. Harvinder while watering the plants, saw a very beautiful and colorful bird flying through our back yard but it took a while for her to realize that it was indeed our Tweety who was enjoying the freedom.
We were very scared as we see lots of hawks flying around here and usually they pounce upon the smaller birds and pets as prey. So all of us ran after him who had by then perched himself at the top most branch of a nearby street tree.
As Shilpy whistled around, he immediately responded with 'Aaja, Aaja' the gesture she had trained him. Now at least we were relieved that he had not flown away to a far distance. Shilpy finally could pursue him to get closer when she could catch him and finally brought him back to his abode. He almost took our hearts out.
We thoroughly enjoy his existence. We do not send him for baby sitting while we are traveling, a very nice and caring Sinha family in our neighborhood visits him to feed him.
Thanks, Tweety for being with our family.
Thursday, June 14, 2012
Gobind and Jania graduate in 2012
Gobind wears a graduation cap to move forward to Fourth Grade
Jania picks up First Grade
Sunday, June 10, 2012
Not A Joke; Khalsa School, San Jose Gurdwara.
Today in the Sunday Khalsa School in San Jose Gurdwara, there was a long line for registration of the kids for the next School year.
In a corner people were grouping around to look for the book by Parveen Kaur Dhillon.
One of the onlookers, a lady, was anxious to know more about the writer. My daughter-in-law Shilpy Kapoor being a close friend of Parveen tried to explain that this book was very well written by a highly educated and a Ph D in Children Education.
To this, the lady immediately questioned me to ask the author why the Gurdwara Committee members were always found fighting with each other.
Perhaps the fighting parties never had their schooling in Sunday Khalsa School San Jose.
Tuesday, June 5, 2012
My abode in Jangpura Extension
I 
In the final stages of redevelopment of A-21 Jangpura Extension in Dec 2011. Presently I own two floors and the basement.
History:
We had an approved settlement claim of Rupees 2 lacs in lieu of significant residential properties in Multan and huge commercial properties in Loyalpur, which fetched us a monthly income of Rs 700 in early 1940.
We were also allocated 100 Acres of Agriculture land in village Badbar in District Barnala in Punjab and anther 36 Acresr in District Patiala. All these properties and cash of Rupees 8000 in the Bank belonged equally to two brothers with widow grandmother Karam Devi controlling the household. In winters, she will stay with us in Panipat and in summers she will move to Shimla.
My father had a widow step sister Harbans Kaur who had married in a rich family. Her husband Attar Singh was a Chief Engineer in a big Manufacturing unit owned by famous Punj Family. Her husband left a fortune forger and she preferred to stay alone in Gurdaspur. When she exhausted her money, she moved to Panipat with us and died in 1967 after prolonged illness.
In ran auction, my father's bid was accepted and we were proud owner of this house A-21 Jangpura Extension in 1955. Since both families were not living in Delhi, the house remained on rent till 1964. We had couple of court cases with the tenants and when we got an opportunity we rented it to Telegraph department at a pricey rent of Ra 350.00 per month to get rid of frequent headaches of private tenant.
With my getting a job in Delhi, my father constructed a two bed room and a Drawing on first floor.
In mean time both brothers decided among themselves in a written agreement dated oct 22. 1971 on a Rs 2.25 Stamp Paper that the GF will be owned by my uncle and first floor and above will be constructed and owned by my father. My uncle will pay my father a sum of Rs 10000.00 in lieu of price of half of building presuming the cost of construction did not esclate for 15 years, My father ceased to have the right of rent of the GF after the payment of Rupees 10,000.00 was made to him on 13th Jan, 1977. The decision was vetoed through a Civil court.
The above agreement was also taken to the civil court and a decree to this arrangement by the Senior Sub Judge was Issued and that the rights of ownership between the brothers finally cemented.
The ground floor remained rented to Telgraphh Office for about 45 years. The Government decision to do away with the telegram business eased the vacation of the ground floor by them.
After buying out the share of my cousins as decided by my respected father late Vaasdev Singh and respected uncle Inderjit Singh amicably through a court order mentioned above.
I sub contracted through a builder to demolish and redevelop the property into Four floors, a Stilt for Parking and. Basement. The builder advanced me money to pay off my cousins and hence a modern four strory building has been finally erected with a stilt and lift. My sister Tripat and her husband Tejpal and their son Harry helped me to overcome so many hurdles to make it happen.
Tuesday, May 22, 2012
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