Wednesday, August 3, 2022

Uncle Harbel Singh Ji


This is a beautiful Tribute to his Dad by his youngest son.





Mithi Piyari Yaad 
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Eh mithiyan yaadaan us mahaan hasti, mahaan aatma di hai jinaanu 32 vare (saal) ho gai ne, “Saade Papaji”. Saade toh vichora pa gai san, par una di mithi yaadaan saade dilaan toh kadi vee vichora nahi pai, har wele saade dilaan vich vassian hoian ne, oh immortal han.

Eh mein jo likh reha haan eh sab una da pariwar jaani jaan ne, una di mithi yaad de kisse, latife ya baani diyaan tukkan har wele yaad aandiya ne.

“Harbel” virla hi naam si, Santa, Mahanta ne theek naam rakheya si. Harbel yaani ki har kisi da beli(dost). Chahe koi chota hove yaa vadda hove, labour hove ya Chief Engineer hove, sab de dost san aur har welle raunak lagai rakhde san.
Very clean hearted.
Saula saal(16 years)de sann 1930 wich jado una nu pata chaleya ki Navi Dilli (New Delhi) ban rahi hai aur usnu banaan da contract una de pind Sargodha de Sardar Sobha Singh ji nu millya si, jisnu angrezaa ne “Sir”da khitaab dita si.Mahant sahib Mahant Bhai Jawahar Singh ji kolo chithi likhwa ke dilli vaste chal pe aur una nu join karan vaste bohat utsak san. Dilli aake jado join kita te pind vich dhumma much gayian san. Bada barkat waala zamaana si una di tankha us velle pachi (25) rupey lagi jis vicho dus (10) rupey ghar bhejde  san aur 15 rupey de naal bada khulla guzaara aur achha ghumna phirna honda si. Unha di dosti Empire Store, Baluja Shoes waale ateh Green Hotel waaleyan naal si.Jo ki Dilli de
top de businessman sann.

Angrezaan da raaj si, English touch si, cheezaan imported mildiyaan san,shokeeni vi bohat see aur hameshan welll dressed rehende sunn.Jad vi oh kadi apne pind chhutti vaste jaande san te oh sabde vaste imported gifts leh ke jaande san aur hamesha tip top rehnde san. Oh dasde san ki jis velle khoo te naahn jaande san te pichon log kehnde san ki Sajjan Singh de putter ne khoob khusbooan machaian hoia ne. Eh jo mein likh reha haan eh koi kahaani nai hai,na hi mai koi lekhak  haan,eh aapbeeti hai jo una di zubaani si, eh una di mithi yaad wich likhi jaa rahi hai. 7-8 saal bad una ne apna naam CPWD wich register karvaa leya aur apna kam shuru kar leya. Kuch chiraan bad shadi hoyi, parwaar wadda hoia khushali jeevan chal riha si kam kadi dilli te garmia wich Simla wich kiyonki parliament othe shift ho jaandi si te othe theka lende si te parwaar samet uthe hi rehnde si ,kam kar achcha chal riha si,fulwari di khusbu mehak rahi si.

Kuch chiran bad ik wadda full tut gaya,yaani ki saadi maa”beeji “ achaanak saade toh vichora paa gaye par  Papaji ne bhana mannya aur uss full nu ghot ke pee litta aur saanu kadi vee beeji da vichora mehsus nahi hon ditta aur uss
fulwari nu ujaddan nahi ditta , uss wele saanu sambhalan vaste saadi waddi bhen”bhenji” ne bohat achchi tarahn nibhaya aur papaji nu poori support ditti, Bhenji sirf 14 saal de san te choti bhen “nanni sirf 1 (one yr) di si, te wich asi chaar bhraa, bhaji, guddu veer, kuks,te mein aap 3 saal(three years) da see.Bhenji te bohat waddi responsibility aagaii, jisde khedan de din chaar sann, una ne apna nahi sochya 
sada Sariya da sochya.

Sanu saarya nu achi tarah
sambhalna,saanu tyar karna, padhana, likhana, aur poore etiquette aur discipline  wich rakhna aur dher sara pyar dena. Papa ji ne saanu saryan nu apna jeewan saathi bana leya.Waqt ik duje naal pyar aur hasde khed de challan lag peya. Una ne apna jeewan apne parwar aur rishtedaran naal badian khushian naal bitaya, hor oh har vele chahande san ki ronka laggian rehan . Rishtedar chahe oh dadka pariwar hove ya nanka pariwar hove ya sage sambandhi hon sabnal khushian bhari ronka lagai rakhde san aur sab di aao bhagat karde san sab naal ikko jeya piyar koi vitkra nahi,koi politics nahi. Koi expectations nahi sann.Apne saare grandchildren naal una nu baut jyaada lagaav si, oh bachheyan naal bachhe ban jaande san. Khas karke sare youngsters naal bohat piyar kar de sann.Urdu dian akhwaran ‘Mlap te Partap’ wichchon maje dar khabran sunande san. Asi saare Bachpan tou hi katthe milke una de naal khan peen da maja lende si, chahe oh neje khana, hindwana(tarbooj) khana, ya chhat te beth ke ganne chupna, katthe khoob enjoy karde si.

Kuchh sade Bachpan dia yaadaan ne - una nu ghumman phiran da bahot shonk si. Sanu har jagah te lehke jaanaa, chahe oh 26 January hove, Ramlila hove yaa Mughal Garden hove, VIP jagah te bithaanaa. Gurpurab teh sare rishtedaran nu kathaa karke Amrit wele lehke jaanaa hor Asa ji di waar da anand maanana. Una di company chahe ghar wich hove yaa kamm teh hove yaa kithe vee ghuman jaana hove sabnu  bohat achhi lagdi si jo ki asi sab bohat miss karde  haan. Jado asi chhote si, sanu hamesha swere uthake kehna “Dhunni Lagao” yaane ki shabad gao aur mekhest,mekhest (make haste) kehna. Una ne sanu “Apna Naam Deyo….., Jin Jin Naam dhiaya tinke kaaj sare….., Guru mere sang sadaa hai naale…..” da jaap japaayaa jo ki aj vee saara parivaar una di leh wich gaayan karde han sab de gharan wich Baba ji da Prakash hai.Uch koti de santa, mahantaa da dera lagda si jo ki Hoshiar Pur aurphir dilli wich pehle Sir Sobha Singh ji de ghar uss ton baad aithe H-18 aande san. Partition wele Papa ji apne saare bhena, bhrawan te rishtedaran nu leh ke aye te una nu achchi tarhan settle keeta.

 Aakhri wich jadon papaji hospital san te tabiyat theek nahi si teh mein te Taanu, amrit vele da amrit gurdwara Bangla sahib to leh ke aaye jistarhan oh intzaar kar rahe san, una ne oh peeta te lamba sah litta our sama gaye. Aj 32 saal ho gaye ne una de naal asi beeji nu vi, Bhenji te saade vadde veer bhaji  nu bohat yaad karde haan. Aj asi Amar bhraji nu  vee bohat yaad karde haan kyonki oh ethe rehnde sann aur una da papa ji de naal aur sade saarya naal bohat piyar si. Saade saare Bajurg Sardarji te una da pariwar S.Partap Singh Jeeja ji toh lehke Amar Bhraji tak aur saade mama ji pariwar de wadde wadere sab bohat piyar valle sann koi her pher nahi si real bonding see.Mithiyan yaadan da khajana bohat hai dil karda hai likhde jao kadi khatam hi nahi hongian, mein har wele una de naal hi riha haan ghar wich vi te bahar vi. I’m soooo..blessed that I lived with him,worked with him and accompanied him almost every where.Likhann wich koi galti hove te maaf karna.Dill diyan gallan sann aur mithiyan yaadaan sann jo tuhade Sariya naal share karniya sann.Bhullan chukan bakshna ji.πŸ™Waheguru πŸ™

Tuhade saarya da well wisher

ASK(Amarjit Singh Kalra)
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