Bond between Father and son

My father had a strong bond with me, choosing to prioritize being with me over the vast lands and property he owned besides well settled daughters. It was partially because of cultural tradition to stay with the son. His decision to move with me to the USA showcases a deep connection and a commitment to family traditions and ties.

Me and my Dad on the shore of Vasco, Goa in 1987

It has been a long and eventful journey filled with various experiences, including the loss of loved ones - my Mom and Grandmother. It must have been a testament to our strong bond that we navigated through life's ups and downs together. My Dad’s decision to stand by me speaks volumes about the depth of his love and commitment to me. 

These experiences shaped my perspective on life and family.

Me and Shiv

Shiv and Gobind walking on the footsteps laid down by their ancestors - The tradition carries on…

The bond between a father and son is often seen as a sacred connection, one that's believed to be divinely woven by a higher power. In our culture and belief system, this relationship is perceived as a gift from God, a connection that's intended to be strong and enduring. It's thought that this bond isn't just a result of biological ties but is also spiritually orchestrated, with a purpose beyond mere kinship.

Family on the same bed and same page.

The divine blessing of staying together to raise their joint families stems from the belief that a father and son are entrusted by a greater force to support and guide not just their individual families, but to come together, combining their wisdom, experiences, and strengths to create a solid foundation for their extended family unit.

Hands of blessings.

Their unity is seen as a testament to the strength of familial ties, rooted in compassion, respect, and mutual understanding. Through their unity, they are believed to be capable of not only nurturing their immediate families but also extending their support and guidance to the broader community. This can take the form of mentoring younger members, offering guidance to those in need, and fostering a sense of unity and support within the community.

The happy trio

Furthermore, their joint service for humanity is perceived as a calling inspired by their close-knit relationship and their shared faith. 

Family merges together to ready themselves for service as bi-product of bond.

They may engage in charitable works like doing Sewa for Gurdwaras and community, philanthropy like Non Profit ‘Dhun Anand’, volunteering in the neihborhood, or any form of service that aims to uplift the lives of others. This service is seen as an extension of their bond, a manifestation of their shared values and commitment to making the world a better place. The ladies in the family, led by Harvinder and Shilpy, are working as a catalyst agent to foster ahead the high end game of service.

Praying together for blessing to do Sewa (Service)

Their unity and joint efforts are believed to be a reflection of God's grace, a testament to the beauty of relationships fostered through divine connections. 

On the move…

Ultimately, their shared purpose, stemming from a belief in a higher power, guides them to not only nurture their own bond but to also extend their love, care, and service to the world around them.